what would you do in my situation???GIRLS.?

Question

my hubbie isnt bringing home enuff money and we cant pay the bills. my twin daughters need more diapers/formula and i have my period and need supplies. which should i get???

babiez. two. we couldnt afford condoms so we ended up with children. Twins.

Answer 1

Your babies should always come first. Why don't you try getting a part-time job to help with some of the costs? Also, I agree with above poster. Look into WIC. It's an excellent program to help families in need. It will help you buy necessities and will take away some of the stress that money can cause.

Good luck if you are serious about this. Please, provide for your children first.

Answer 2

sorry but kids fist, however they do have a program called WIC, that can help you with buying formula for your daughters, they give you several cans a month, listed below is a address where you can find out more info. Also because this is like a need right now situation, I would take the money you do have get the cheapest pack of pads, a small bag of diapers and a the smallest can of formula. If you still cannot cover it. Most public restrooms have tampon dispensers, and you could always get the diapers and formula, then get change in quarters, and hit the Lady's room. This could hold you over till you can get more money. If you don't have a friend that could spare a few bucks email me your name and phone number and where you live and I will wire you a few bucks hell! just don't let the kiddos go without. Also you may want to contact your local welfare department, they can give you assistance such as food stamps, and depending on your circumstances they may be able to help with money. They also will help pay for daycare if you are ready to return to work. Best of luck to you and yours!


sorry but as for your re post about condoms...come one they are not that expensive, and also your local health department can give you birth control at little or no cost!
Maybe instead of making babies its time for hubby to get a better job? you should at least talk to him about it!

Answer 3

Are you on welfare? it sounds like you need assistance. But if it was me- i would get supplies for the babies- food. the diapers can be gotten at a church or something- maybe get rid of the internet- seems less important than things for the baby no?

Answer 4

you are stupid!!why would you have to think about it? hmm should i feed my babies that is the dumbest thing i have ever heard.you can put a wash cloth or something like that.i think your children need to taken away from you if you have to ask someone else if they should eat! and one more thing how can you afford the internet or gas to go to the library but not formula or diapers hmm?

Answer 5

formula.

maslow's heiarchy of needs

your children need food to survive.

you can use cloths for diapers until you get some
or you can use t shirts or what not.
be creative

for your period.
you can use tissue
a washcloth
a sock


but most important.
your children need to eat.

Answer 6

get a job, look into WIC, it's a program that gives support (e.g. like formula, milk, cheese and stuff like that) to people who need it. There are a lot of programs like that, I think you can get WIC from places like Planned Parenthood.

Answer 7

Get a Babysitter for free(maybe your grandma/grandpa,etc.)
Go get foodstamps and see if you can get a part time job paying atleast 8/11 dolla'z a hour,and ask your cuzin,auntie,etc. for pads/tampons they will understand.

Answer 8

Deffinetly the food for your babies. Come on you shouldn't even have to think twice about this. Your children come first.

Answer 9

your kids come first, always, you can use a washcloth and then wash it and reuse it....what do you think they did before sanitary napkins were invented?