Why am i doomed so?

Question

Why is it that no matter what i want to do, or get, or achieve...something always stands in the way.

Its like im cursed when it comes to dreams and ambitions.

I wanted to join the military....and i cant now (i can, but not in the field i want),

I wanted to go to college, but now i really dont think i can make it.

Theres always something standing in the way, and im tired of it

i hate life.....i hate it more than i hate anything

Answer 1

That sounds familiar. But keep moving on with your life and let it get better or worse.

Answer 2

If you don't believe in yourself, you never will succeed. College is difficult for anyone. What did you think, it would be a stroll in the park? I hate to hear people beat themselves into the ground. Things don't always go exactly as planned, so we accept what we get and do the best we can from there. Right now you are your own worst enemy because you are convincing yourself that your not good enough. That is why you hate life. The longer you continue to do that instead of taking action to make improvement, the more you will hate yourself and life. Give it all you have. The only losers in life are those who refuse to try. You don't have to finish the race in first place to be a winner, the fact that you participated at all makes you a winner. ;-(

Answer 3

Ok, first of all, you really need to change your name, because it makes you stand emo, and your whole life will ahve obstacles, just like anyone elses, its just the bratty rich kids who buy the easy way out of things like that who dont have to overcome obstacles, hate life? if you hated life you woudlnt be here, if you hated life youd be dead right now, hate is too strong of a word to use. Maybe strongly dislike would work a little better. Take a xanax dude, and see some other peoples lives, you think you have it bad? what about the starving kids in africa, who live on the streets, who have aids? who die more and more every day, pop a xanax and go to a therapist or something dude...

Answer 4

You may find this an odd answer.

I feel that you are been shown another way to live your life, other than those ways you mention.

Try to go in another direction completely, and you may be surprised that life will turn itself around.

No matter what you have to go through, stick to your dream.
I would be quite excited if I were you, not depressed. There must be something pretty special in your future, otherwise you would not be getting blocked in this way. Imagine that you are going down a certain road to get to your house. Suddenly you find your way blocked. There is a detour sign and you take it, only to find that it is a faster way home than the one you usually take. That is what I think is happening to you.

Change your thinking and see what you can come up with.
I bet there is a huge surprise for you, somewhere in the near future, IF YOU CHANGE YOUR THINKING.

Answer 5

What's standing in your way is your negative thinking. You have to make things happen for yourself. You have to work hard toward your goals. Anything worth having is worth the blood, sweat, and tears you have to go through to obtain it. There is no easy street, or freebies in live. How do you know you can make it in college if you never go to see. Fail first before you give up. Get rid of your negative thought pattern toward yourself and you will be fine. Think POSITIVE, even when it seems hopeless, it will change. You see negative thinking has been working for you now let positive thinking work for you.

Answer 6

If you hate you're life so much fix it. Wow, you can't get the exact job you want(your not the only one). "I really don't think I can make It" what kind of attitude is that. If your looking for someone to blame maybe you need a mirror. There are people out there with serious problems that still manage to get their **** together and be happy. Grow up.

Answer 7

You got a gift, take it. Most people go their lives thinking they're in control of something. It's an illusion. You found out at an early age. Be grateful.

Answer 8

Everybody has or has had the same issues. A measure of a person is how they handle it. You can either move on, get over it and live your life to the fullest. Or you can be weak and stupid and end it.

Answer 9

YOUR NOT ALONE , MY 20 YEAR OLD SON . IS SNAKE BITE ALSO . IN FACT WE WERE IN TRAFFIC COURT LESS THAN 3 HRS AGO . LAST WEEK ON THE WAY HOME FROM WORK ON THE DAY A HEADLIGHT BURNT OUT , HE GOT A IMPROPER EQUIPMENT TICKET , IT COST $ 124.50 . IN THE LAST YEAR 15 -20 DIFFERENT THINGS HAPPENED THAT NEVER SHOULD , BUT THATS JUST THE WAY THINGS GO WITH HIM . IT HAS COST ME A FORTUNE , MOST OF IT IS NOT HIS FAULT .

Answer 10

i know what u mean... just try ( and fail..) to think of all the GOOD things in ur life. when ppl commit suicide... right before they die... they have a STRONG STRONG urge 2 live. in the mean time.. focus on humor, gf, everything good.. good luck!