so many of my friends are gay. I dont think i am yet a part of me wants to join them. i have friends who are straight. thats not hte problume. i just really like the ones that are gay.
2007-11-05 12:05:43 · 19 answers · asked by jessz14 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't have to be-- I don't choose to be-- I just am.
Sorry you like the gay guys, haha I almost feel bad for straight girls.
2007-11-05 12:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Don't be gay just because your friends are. You don't just choose to be gay. Besides, you will WAY regret it later on. Talk about conforming! Besides, half your friends probably aren't gay anyways. I've noticed that "being gay" is like a new clothing trend now in High School. Everybody just wants to be gay to be different, especially girls, when they are really not. it's sick and stupid and maybe you should make some new friends. I'm not saying they are all liars, or not to be their friends anymore, I'm just saying if you actually feel pressure to turn gay to fit in with your friends, that maybe it's time to expand your circle of friends.
Good luck, and never do anything just because your friends are!
So cliche, but it's true!
2007-11-05 20:15:37 · answer #2 · answered by Ivana Cracker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry sweetie, I never had a choice in the matter. I've always been gay and always will be gay. Even if they did find a "cure" I wouldn't do it. This is me, this is who I am.
2007-11-05 21:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by Squirrel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is for the same reason people have blue, green or brown eyes. It's good to have a lot of friends, with all kinds of backgrounds. We all learn from one another. Judge them by the content of their character.
2007-11-05 20:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by Darby 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've always known I liked girls. Being gay isn't about "joining" or recruiting. That sounds silly.
2007-11-06 00:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you just love gay people because they're so fabulous! lol
but hey, i love gay people too. they always seem to be so fun and insightful
just because you hang out with a lot of gay people doesn't mean you have to be gay-- just accepting
2007-11-05 20:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by blackcat3556 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone who is gay is gay. No one told them they had to be nor did they choose to be. They are who they are.
2007-11-05 20:16:38 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Geologist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do we really have a choice if we're honestly gay.
2007-11-05 20:10:02 · answer #8 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not gay but,you might want to experiment with girls to see if its what you like or not.If you regret the encounter,you'll
know its not for you.
2007-11-05 20:12:36 · answer #9 · answered by thresher 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
just keep being yourself. you'll eventually decide if you are straight or gay! you gotta choose a side eventually.
2007-11-05 20:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋