I have a friends who is good friends with some "not-so-nice" people. I'm really scared that my friend will end up getting hurt by these people. How can I tell her without her being mad at me?
2007-11-05 08:16:53 · 9 answers · asked by Miss T 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Well all I or anyone else for that matter can do would be to let them know what's going on and let them know that it's not a personal attack but that you are concerned and then let them decide for themselves I guess.
2007-11-05 08:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a chance you take. If your friend trusts you and you explain it in a way that lets your friend know you are concerned and not trying to pick on the others, you might be okay. Sometimes, people react badly to anything being said about others they hang around with no matter how you word it.
2007-11-05 18:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by Breezey is saying HAPPY BIRTHDAY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take her aside and talk to her telling her that she should keep herself on guard and be alert and be her own self and do not do anything she may and will be sorry for later on. Show her how valuable you are a friend to her and do not do anything you feel is wrong or even indifferent.
2007-11-05 18:13:42 · answer #3 · answered by Dave aka Spider Monkey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a tough one!because if your friend likes the "not-so-nice"people,she will be blind to the truth and not listen!and if you do tell her anything about them,she will think you are jealous or sth!the only thing that you can do is say"hey,do you know what sby told me about so-and-so?and see how she reacts!the bottom line is,that she will have to get hurt,in order to see the truth!
2007-11-05 17:42:54 · answer #4 · answered by ....FED UP............ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its a close friend of yours then you have to be open without it sounding like you are telling her what to do :))
2007-11-05 16:28:48 · answer #5 · answered by Magster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her your experience with those people. But let her decide for herself what she wants to do.
2007-11-05 16:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by Niffer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's kinda hard because either way you lose, people get upset when you talk about their friends.
but just try to be as nice as possible
2007-11-05 16:23:05 · answer #7 · answered by Jay Seven 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
when your talkin about her fiends try not to sound like your attacking them! but just let her know how you feel and why and if she values your opinion she shouldnt get upset!
2007-11-05 16:24:47 · answer #8 · answered by New York Chic 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you just have to be honest with them
2007-11-05 16:25:53 · answer #9 · answered by Wish 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋