How Do I Be More Flirty?

Question

Ok.. I just really want to know how to be more flirty and naturally sexy.

People say I'm a beautiful girl (I'm 17) but I'm not cheap or anything like that. I have values and I'm not about to do anything for a guy.

I just really want to know how to be really sexy and flirty... without becoming cheap and going against what I believe..

So any tips... Guys what do you like? How should I flirt?

Answer 1

Here is all you need to know. The SEXIEST thing in the world is a woman who knows how to spark the IMAGINATION of a man. It has nothing to do with getting naked or by being cheap -- in fact, those things make guys think less of you. Think of Brittany Spears, for example. She was every guy's fantasy before she started acting out. When she started leaving her underwear at home and flashed for the cameras, guys didn't get excited, they were repulsed! So, sexy can be many, many things. A little cleavage on a full-length dress. A long slit up the side of another dress. A simple button-up white shirt with one less button done up versus what a guy would do (you show nothing but chest, but it makes guys dream). In terms of your behaviors, the most magical thing a woman can do is 1) look you in the eyes, and 2) smile. That's it! Seriously. Eye contact can be scary, but it shows confidence. It also makes a guy think that he's desirable, and THAT is sexy (again, the idea is to get the guy thinking about you, not just staring at body parts). Smiles--well, who doesn't like a smile? Oh, and seriously--you DON'T need to ever "do anything for a guy." Guys are people just like you and they don't need any favors from you to find you interesting. At your age, guys can be pigs, but there are a lot of really decent ones too. I hope this helps! :)

Answer 2

Actually talk to guys show interest in what they like and that alone will be more flirty. Just laughing and joking around is also flirty. I have to imagine all these things to be true for i have been called a big flirt since i was 17 and i am 21 now.

Answer 3

Last_Sam is correct. Supplement that with cleavage and coin slot. Short skirts, tight jeans, Daisy Dukes, tube tops or other middrift wear, sundresses, backless dresses, lip gloss, flowing shiny hair, some underwear slightly showing, a little giggling and playful touch, etc.

High heels too, that's a no brainer.

Good luck! Make us proud!

Answer 4

well im a gurl you know... but maybe i could give you some tips on being more flirty or sexy.. im not an expert but i have been in reltionships and somewhat do know how to get a guy without going away from my morals or being knda a hoe. but u just got kind of be one of them and join in the stuff they like... and dnt be too girly becuase alot of guys dnt like thta and not alot of makeup... but be sweet and be one of them once in a while they enjoy u being one of them... hope i helped a little... ^_^

Answer 5

be suggestive but not overly suggestive as in: touch is a good way to indicate you like someone lightly brush your hand against theres. be confident and direct. Make plenty of eye contact.

Answer 6

Be yourself, smile and laugh alot, show a genuine interest in the object of your flirting.

Answer 7

Have fun with your life. Show confidence. Ive asked the same question to my guy friends and thats what they say.

Answer 8

Laugh a lot at his crappy jokes.
Lightly touch his arm when laughing.
Talk as dirty as you're willing to, but jokingly; laughing and saying stuff like "we should hang out sometime... maybe in the back seat of my car?"

Answer 9

Well just show confidence...don't act like you are better than everyone just show that you are you . Guys seem to like that .
And have a little sass in your walk...guys seem to like that too.
Just be you but let a little loose.

Answer 10

Don't mean to offend you with my answer and you should never change your morals and values for no one...but as someone said or did...took nude pics of herself and sent them to him or her...because it was a special day...Yet I saw the pics and what he did with them..DELETE. Girl be your humble and beautiful self, you will be surprise how many of us fall in love with that.