this question is great. it opens up a lot of discussion possibilities.
First. as a controller one should be a leader, someone who can run things well. IE: the Governor, the mayor, a director or a boss.
But, you must also be a teacher so that those who follow you won't fall on their faces but, will be able to stand on there own after you've shown them the way.
Now, to be controlled takes a bit of submission to someone else’s way of thinking.
when one is controlled, he or she is decent, elegant, frigid, immaculate, impotent, innocent, maidenly, modest, monogamous, moral, neat, platonic, proper, quiet, refined, restrained, simple.
I feel that I am the controller because I want what's best for mankind and I try and live my life so that when I leave this world, it will be better than I found it.
I am also controlled because I feel like I have everything in my life due to my faith in God, My great wife and my awesome children. I am controlled by my desires to protect and love my family. I am controlled by my desires to be a better person who is in control of his emotions, language and life.
Thanks for asking this question. this has been stimulating to think of all the different levels of control VS controlled.
2007-11-05 07:36:23
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answered by thedadof7 2
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Absolutely the controller. In the past I spent a few years being the controlled, but I turned that into a positive learning experience and will never be that person again.
2007-11-05 15:02:54
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answered by GiGi! 4
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I will let myself be controlled in some circumstances, when it is necessary. I can just as easily control people and circumstances when it is appropriate to do so. I know people that just fold and coast. But the most interesting are ones that can evaluate the needs of a situation, and act accordingly.
2007-11-05 15:10:02
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answered by redd headd 7
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A controller who pretends to be controlled
2007-11-05 15:02:14
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answered by Super Star 3
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The Outer Limits is the controller.
2007-11-05 15:03:40
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answered by skaizun 6
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Controller amongst friends, controlled in a classroom (by the teacher, of course).
2007-11-05 15:06:07
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answered by ? 5
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I'm the controller! It's like that when you're the only woman in a house of men! =)
2007-11-05 15:00:50
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answered by Uh-May-Zing 5
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Married man. She just let's me think I'm in control
2007-11-05 15:03:25
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answered by keeprockin 7
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The controller, but, not willingly. I'm left to make all major decisions, as well as something as simple as where to eat, when we go out for a meal. I really don't like
being the controller. :(
2007-11-05 15:04:56
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answered by ♥Carol♥ 7
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I am definitely the controller.
2007-11-05 15:01:20
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answered by Anonymous
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