My husband and i have stopped masturbating and are trying to focus on how god intended the marriage relationship to be. We are both very sincere about this and have prayed about it and talked to others about it. Any suggestions on other ways of succeeding and anyone who has succeeded it doing so?
2007-11-05 06:36:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
i would like to say that this has nothing to do with "how grown up" we are or anything. I would appreciate some respect and i think it is very unnecessary for people to make rude comments about someones elses choice of lifestyle.
2007-11-05 07:00:16 · update #1
There is no need in this, except in the satisfying each other together, not apart. Keep praying and praying that you will receive an answer or example from God. Keep doing it the way God intended, you can do for one another occasionally....xx
2007-11-05 06:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by lana s 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if this is what you want, of course you have every right, and no need to explain why or anything else for that matter. Simply I think it comes down to self control, as there is no other sensible way, other than medication, to affect this. With all due respect, have you ever tried perhaps simply being closer on an everyday basis, but not to the point of engaging in sex. I've always found that sometimes, just a little "loving" can be satisfying as it confirms that little question we all have which is....am I still desirable to him/her?. The reality is that "holding off" actually would increase the pleasure when those times were, if only he could resist. Good Luck with this and perhaps you'll get some good advice...try asking the doctor. D'n'D
2007-11-05 07:26:47 · answer #2 · answered by DESPERATELY SEEKING SANITY!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry if there is something I am missing here, but I cannot quite see how in a marriage where the physical relationship is good this should be a problem.. Surely when your husband is physically aroused you can meet his needs by means of intercourse - he should not need to resort to masturbation and you should not let him do it. Sure, sometimes you may not be in the mood, so to speak, but you should still be able to cope if the motivation to give up masturbation is really strong. Likewise, he has a resposibility to satisfy your needs rather than you having to resort to doing it yourself. Is this a practical solution for you both?
2007-11-05 08:15:33 · answer #3 · answered by janniel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 09:37:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The oly time I ever have M is when I have no gf. Otherwise I have all my sexual fun with her. She's the one that makes me squirt. If I ever really get horny, I have her ands she has me to satisfy her "hunger."
I can understand him doing that if he has no one, but he has you (his wife).
2007-11-05 07:52:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Plain and simple, have more sex with each other. If you consistently drink enough water you won't get thirsty.
2007-11-05 07:02:03 · answer #6 · answered by Waldo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Work on pleasing each other, foreplay, masturbating each other, various positions, etc.
good luck
2007-11-05 06:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
you know what do it to each other let you wife do you and you do wife that's more fun i did to myself for a long time and finally got tired good luck
2007-11-05 06:58:13 · answer #8 · answered by gerald m 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just take care of yourselves together. Have it bring you closer together, instead of drive you apart.
2007-11-05 07:04:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you have lost your silly minds. Masturbation is totally normal. No need to stop. Better to masturbate than cheat or mess around.
2007-11-05 06:47:55 · answer #10 · answered by happydawg 6 · 2⤊ 4⤋