When we were very young we used to bath together. I'm older (3 years) but I didn't think anything of it at the time. Did seeing an older male naked turn him gay? I need help to know if this is my fault!
2007-11-05 05:05:46 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I thought your brother was a girl. I definitely think seeing a naked 3 year old is why he got married!
;-)
2007-11-05 06:37:29 · answer #1 · answered by strpenta 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope you didn't turn him gay.
I'm not sure why but we are all what we are from birth.
Think about it anyone who is confused about their prefference is a victum of generalising because all your life from start to finish you hear about how men and women are supposed to be together.
For instance.
One day you're going to make some girl a fine husband.
Have you got a girl friend yet.
Man she looks good doesn't she.
Look Magley's got a girl friend.
Stuff like this and I know you can probably think of better examples but I'm kind of tired at the moment.
Then there is all the bad stuff said about gays that you hear all your life. People some gays included make it hard to come out and this is where the confusion and yes fear comes from.
Don't listen to people who say that he chose to be that way it's bull.
Did you choose to be straight or did you just get horney when ever you saw a girl you liked, it's the same for gay boys.
Trust me your little brother didn't say wow I like girls but after showering with my big bro I have to have a guy.
Nope all you did was teach him to get clean.
Hugs
2007-11-05 05:26:52 · answer #2 · answered by DeathsToy 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Weeeelllll - it's like this. I had sex with my brother when we were growing up and I am gay and he is straight. We are just who and what we are. No one and Nothing can make anyone gay or straight EVER. You are born that way genetically and that is just who and what you are. No one can change that EVER. Never Ever, no matter how much brainwashing they try, no church or organization can turn someone - much less you just taking a bath with someone. It is like anyone can be hypnotized in the right circumstances but no one can be made to do something they seriously would not do while they are hypnotized or people would be murdering everywhere. Likewise, a person born gay can NOT become straight.
2007-11-05 06:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
certainly. Your little brother advised you, in self belief, something which could be confusing or maybe terrifying to confess to others. He depended on you to deal with the fact with adulthood and understand, he needed acceptance as all and sundry do, and the reaction you gave him replaced into "beating his ***"? different people have reservations with homosexuality, through religious or different very own ideals, yet somebody who's your flesh and blood should not be condemned for what he can no longer administration. Being gay isn't a curse, or a decision, is it a state of being it relatively is fluid and thoroughly organic. Shunning him is barely going to make issues worse. you are able to no longer "beat it out of him" or substitute his possibilities. How is it you think of you or your loved ones think of which you would be able to come to a determination who he might love? people of the LGBT community have been criticized, punished, refrained from, crushed, or maybe KILLED for what they have been. Now a days, we glance decrease back upon the discrimination of African-individuals and the comfortable difficulty of slavery with shame and disgust, through fact they, in basic terms like us, are people. the very comparable is actual for those under the rainbow flag. i'm a transgender male as nicely as pansexual. I certainly have experienced painful issues through fact i desired to stay a existence that helped me experience like me. do no longer positioned your brother in the process the comparable ingredient. do no longer enable him go through, through fact you're family members, and he's a man or woman that merits your love and interest.
2016-10-15 03:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you have seen your father naked and you turned out straight... or perhaps not.
Besides at that age they are all about the same.. so it wouldn't matter if you were older or younger.. and all younger brothers bathe with older brothers and I doubt they are all gay.. or perhaps they are...
2007-11-05 05:27:36 · answer #5 · answered by howie r 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Dude, how would that make any sense?
If that had any possibility of "turning him gay", then why aren't you gay cause you saw him naked?
Get a grip, he's probably been feeling like this for a while and just wanted to tell you. His feelings about guys probably came as naturally to him as yours did to girls.
2007-11-05 05:26:40 · answer #6 · answered by The Smile Man 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
This isn't your fault at all and else's fault either. I hope you support him and help him through any tough times he may have as a result. You already sound like a good brother and that you care lots about your lil' bro...makes me PROUD and happy to know their some smart guys out there that trust their heart and care enough to find out how to make things better....GOOD 4 U !!! D'n'D
2007-11-05 05:18:04 · answer #7 · answered by DESPERATELY SEEKING SANITY!!! 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋
I hope so... If so, I may end up with the daughter I always wanted because my sons bathe together and they are about the same age as you two were.
2007-11-05 05:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 2⤋
yup.... he saw your 6 year old package and right then and there he "turned"... although that would mean YOU must be gay too since you were both in the tub together... you would have had to "turn" each other... if that's how it works... so when are YOU coming out?
2007-11-05 05:19:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
what?? theres no way you bathing together as kids made him gay. stop making yourself sound like the victim and love your brother for who he is. gay or not he's still your brother no matter how it came to be.
2007-11-05 05:13:02 · answer #10 · answered by justkeepinitreal 1 · 6⤊ 2⤋