He says he loves me but he acts like i'm nobody to him. He's not the same anymore.. is he bored of me? is he cheating on me? does he wanna leave me or? I'm so confused...We've been together for year and 6 months. My feeling for him is still so strong and i love him so much,..but I dont understand him
2007-11-05 04:34:55 · 16 answers · asked by ~*ViCkY*~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A possible yes to all three of your questions. good luck
2007-11-05 04:38:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be many, MANY reasons why he's not acting the way he used to. Maybe he's getting comfortable with you, which is find. Not bored, just at this comfort level. I think many people in a relationship want that comfort. It says that you love each other so much, you don't have to do that dating "acting" that you used to do. Not that you were never yourself back then, but you just put your best feet forward at that time.
Ask him if there's anything wrong. If he says no, accept that and tell him that you love him. Sometimes in relationships, the ones that we're with don't show love the way that we wish they would. He might show his love for you in ways that you don't even comprehend as being signs of affection because that's not how you read them...but that doesn't mean they're not there! Talk to him about it. Ask him what things you do that express love to him and ask what you CAN do differently to show your love for him in the future. If they're things that aren't to difficult to do, then I would try to do them once in awhile.
That might be the thing that opens up a conversation to him asking you what he can do to show YOU love as well.
2007-11-05 05:08:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the two of you are in the comfort zone. This is a touchy part in a relationship its when one party becomes comfortable in the relationship and figures you know they love you so why woo. But at the same time the other person (usually the woman) begins to wonder about the others feelings. Basically what I am saying is that yes he loves you but he is comfortable. Which may not seem like a good thing but it is he feels your love is there to stay just like his and there is no need to have to say it always but just being there and sharing life together is enough. Tell him you know he loves u but you still need that reassurance.
2007-11-05 04:45:53 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to sit and talk to him you are not going to know if he is sick of you or not sit down talk to him is he ur bf or his he your husband? Because if he is ur husband try to go to couseling or spice up your life a little be out spoken tell him what he going on if he is your bf then talk to him or watch what he is doing he might have another girl on the side and he is getting tired of you but the best thing you can do is talk to him that is going to solve your problem. And if all fails then leave him if it was ment to be then he will come back for you.
2007-11-05 05:57:08 · answer #4 · answered by Lost 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your marriage is still new, you two are still adjusting. Don't make yourself crazy wondering what he is thinking. Relax, go about your daily life, be nice, and don't talk so much about the relationship. Have a little vacation from the craziness and go out to dinner and talk about the sky is blue.
2007-11-05 04:44:11 · answer #5 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
The problem you have with him is communication let me ask you how is your temper like it might contribute.
How do handle issue when they arise. Try and create an avenue that both of you be talking from the you will know.
Thanks
2007-11-05 04:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by daniel65ng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can say whatever they want but ACTIONS speak louder than words. I'd tell him how he's making you feel. If he really loves you he'll do what he needs to to make you happy. Life's too short to stay unhappy for long.
2007-11-05 04:54:25 · answer #7 · answered by shellshell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just have to let go, because the very thing that we try to keep is the very thing that we do not need. This relationship sounds like it's causing you more harm than good.
2007-11-05 04:42:09 · answer #8 · answered by Art 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
God come to me and help me better my relationship with my husband show me what I must do to be at peace and share my love
In Jesus Name AMEN
Say this 3 times a day
1 when you wake up
2. at lunch time
3. at night before bed say out loud
do this for 30 days and repeat when necessary
2007-11-05 04:46:37 · answer #9 · answered by mmmkay_us 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel as if he's lost interest, then ask him to listen and tell him how you feel... he won't know unless you tell him.
You will probably have to decide what is best for YOU in the long run.... take care of yourself, ok?
2007-11-05 04:40:34 · answer #10 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Words don't mean sh*t if his actions don't match!! Something is up with him. Talk to him and find out before you waste the next year being in a miserable relationship.
2007-11-05 04:41:12 · answer #11 · answered by YUMMY1 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋