please help me out specially girls?

Question

i m a 14 year old boy
i like to see adult movies
and those actresses
i know i should not see this type of movies
i try to avoid this
but then too i like to see that stuff
u know that is in adult movies
i like that so so much and specially
u no
but i want to get rid of this
what can i do to not see these type of
movies i dont understand why i like them
please help me out
i want to stop watching these type of
movies
wat should i do

please tell me the reason to this
do u feel this too
how can i get rid of seeing
this type of movies
please help

Answer 1

Please talk to someone! Do NOT watch anykind of movies until you are past this. Just keep reminding yourself how this can eventually lead to getting you in trouble in life. You do not want to end up being in prison for the rest of your life. It is not worth it!

Answer 2

Ok I think the importan thing here is PERSPECTIVE. You are sexaully awakening so it's natural to want to see girls doing sexual stuff. Don't panic about it and trust me at the moment you don't need to see a doctor or anything like that!

On the flip side as enjoyable as porn might be you need to accept that they are like all other fiction, not real! You shouldn't go into a relationship with a girl expecting it to be like that or that girls are just sex objects. Talk to some girls and improve your dating skills and if you are still worried about the porn put the movies in a hard to get to place so that it will take a reall effort to get them and watch them. The chances are that in a few years you will get a girlfriend and be less reliant on the porn anyway. Good luck.

Answer 3

At 14 you should be indulging in all sorts of energy sapping sports to dissipate all those hormonal changes!
It is natural for boys to start thinking of girls. Get involved in more outside activities, organized contact sports.
Limit yourself to 1 hour of TV in evenings, no more than two on Saturday - none of Sunday, this is the Lords Day - Talk to your earthly father and your Heavenly Father about this problem. If you are Catholic (and you should be) become an alter server, confess to both your Priest and to yourself that your fascination is unhealthy! Get other interests. There is so much more to living - save some mysteries for your wedding night - when you are 29-35!

Answer 4

You're a hormonal teenage boy. That's why. Just stop watching them, and in a few years, your hormones will be under control. Till then, treat girls like the plague, and you'll be fine. Yes, I know it's hard to stop, yadda yadda yadda, but you've just got to not allow yourself. Invite friends over, go outside and play, etc, anything to get you away from it. If you still have trouble, then talk to someone, parent, pastor, etc, and get help. This is a form of addiction. Good luck!

Answer 5

Hi :) As you're getting older and maybe your friends are starting to talk about girls, it's normal to be curious about sex -there is nothing wrong with you. Please don't worry. :)

Are you watching those movies and thinking you're supposed to be like those guys for girls to like you? That's not true at all -real people (guys and girls) aren't like the people in those movies. So maybe watching them is just making you worry.

So... Are there friends you can talk to about your feelings? Do you know any grownups that you trust whom you can ask about girls? Is there a counselor in your school whom you could talk to?

If you want to learn more about dating and girls from movies, try romance movies, or movies about people your age dating - you'll get to know more what it's like in real life, and you won't worry so much.

Good luck :)

Answer 6

You should tell your parents that you have an addiction and have them disconnect adult channels or remove the films from the home. You should not watch tv at all until you can control yourself. Instead of watching movies, play video games, play board games with your family, have family time and chats, read more wholesome books, have friends over to play with you.

Answer 7

nicely the reality that shes sixteen might kinda stray me from attempting to get this lady to love me greater desirable than a pal. Dont be the kind you're functioning at right here. Wayyy too overexcited. in basic terms be cool and in case your no longer a punk as* then be your self.

Answer 8

it's perfectly normal to feel...aroused...with the female actresses in adult movies. but that's why they're adult movies. i suggest going to movies with friends that aren't comfortable with adult movies. if there are enough friends who don't want to go, then most likely you won't go either. if you only have friends who like to see adult movies, then go with your grandparents, parents (probably not) younger siblings, or kids who you might babysit. the likely-hood of you wanting to see these movies with this specific group of people is very low. good luck!

Answer 9

Lets see your 14, your in puberty and yes you are interested in girls. Thumbs up your not gay.

Enjoying seeing it isn't bad your in a morale issue with yourself. You like it but know your not supposed to be seeing it. Your body wants to and your brain says no.

Well basically train yourself not to give in to the temptation to watch the movies. Also keep in mind its MOVIES girls really are not like that. Keep fantasy and reality in check you should be ok. Welcome to puberty its hell.

Answer 10

Don't get sucked into that kind of stuff. It will really hurt any relationship you try and forge in the future. It's all so unrealistic. Just say no!