Cant keep or find job, due to age and slowing down that comes with it?

Question

Im 57, moved to Minneapolis,mn 5 years ago. Was working a full time job, Now i cant find a job or keep one. Since I have slowed down. Even in a part time job, i hear "im not catching on fast enough or im too slow." I never had that problem before i moved here. I dont know where to get or find help. I want to work a full time job. (or even a part time job) Its not my fault that i slowed down, it will happen to everyone at one time or another. I feel useless.

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Im wasnt fried from my last job, ( ilove it) and im not using it as an excuse.(worked at that place for 5 years, met someone in minneapolis and moved here) I was a die cutter and laminator. Ive been to the dr. and in good health. He said it can happen at any time to someone in there 50s. I dont know why im not catching on as quickly. I do my best. I liked working and still want to. I dont want food service any more, I was doing that about 25 years ago and thought i could do it again. I was wrong.
I know we all get old. I have worked with temp agencies, and they ran cold. I use the newspapers, been to unemployment agency. They just tell me to keep looking in the exact places i have been looking. I have been thinking of getting into car insurance field, everyone needs that. But if that doesnt happen.

i dont have any income to rely on. Im in a long term relationship, wouldve liked to have had a decent paying job before i retired or to have something to retire on.

Answer 1

find a library or museum. they are looking for somone with your wisdom. not somone who can run a 7 min mile

Answer 2

no one is useless. first get a complete check up at the doctor. if you can't pay there are places that charge according to your income. depression could be a factor. it will slow you down. it can be treated and is nothing to be ashamed of. food service would be a very bad choice. i know this from experience. they want you to do the job of five people at very very low pay, and will run your health (both physical and mental) into the ground. if there is an employment agency near you , try them for a job. temporary positions can be good. depending on what ties you have in Minneapolis, perhaps moving to another town can give you a fresh and interesting new start. what do you enjoy? perhaps there is profit to be made from your favorite hobby. you are not to old to go after what makes you happy. it is your right as a human being. good luck and god bless.

Answer 3

There's always some job out there for you. Sometimes, you just need to find one that suits you.

Has something happened to you healthwise in the past few years? Do you find you lack energy and enthusiasm? Are you noticing you physical stamina is lower? Whatever, you might want to start with a checkup with your doctor to see if your health is somehow suffering and there may be options there.

If it's not exactly a health issue, then perhaps you lack interest in the jobs you are taking. Perhaps you need to look for a different type of job, something that does interest you or doesn't require intense training or whatever.

There is a job somewhere in Minneapolis for you.

Answer 4

Your in a very tough situation and I can only try and understand how you must be feeling. You love him and you don't want to turn to anyone else but you need sex and that's the one thing he won't give you. To be honest I think u need to compromise... A whole month is a lot for him to ask of you and everyday is a lot for you to ask of him so I think you two should meet in the middle somewhere and If he can't make that simple compromise then he doesn't understand how you feel and is being selfish. I'm not saying break up or anything but sex is a huge part of a relationship and something he can't just keep dismissing.

Answer 5

56 Had not worked in the work force in yearrrrrrrrrssss. My husband passed away unexpectedly and we did not have the insurance I thought we had... Needless to say when I got my head in emotions going in thesame direction knew I had to go back to work. Started with something had never done but at a place I liked to shop. Had always been in HR, upper level management and Financial, did not want that responsibility since I had just gotten to where I could think for myself. Took a cashier position to get used to being around people and in the work force. Had a hard time because the old over qualified bit. After about 8 months found myself getting stronger and went for something total out of my arena. Got trainings needed and am very happy with my job. At our age you need to like what you do, and do what you like.
You CAN do it. Hang in there.

Answer 6

It may be, if your health is still good and you have had recent medical check ups, that your interest in your current field of employment is waning. It is not too late for you to take on work in which you have a real interest. You are NOT useless! It is normal for everyone to slow down a bit as they age and it is also normal for ones interests to change as he or she matures. That is a fact of life. If you have some sort of pension from your 25 year job to keep you in basic food, clothing and shelter, then you might wish to work part-time and save some of your money to invest in savings and in building yourself a new career. Keep believing in yourself. Best wishes to you. PS. Retirement is not all bad, either!

Answer 7

I've never been to Minneapolis. And I can't give you any good place for work, since it might not suit you. Maybe you should go work for real-estate, or start up a small business like grocery store, diner, etc. Don't worry; you're not along. I feel the same way as you do.

Answer 8

Try getting a job in a senior citizen area....i.e. a retirement home...typing, helping others, You could try getting work as a private care giver for the elderly as well. Sometimes you are just in a market where the pace is too fast. It sounds like that is how MN is. Try the library too. Good luck!

Answer 9

That's pretty young for having a slow response. In the meantime, you should get that checked out by a doctor. You didn't say what kind of work you do, but maybe you can be a receptionist in a small office.

Answer 10

well there are usually like unemployment offices in everytown why dont you try finding one around your area? check out the newspapers too. and dont let anyone get to you. We all get old but all that matters is that were a kid at heart! hang in there you'll find something!

Answer 11

i would 1st get my health examined. you could have high blood sugar or high blood pressure any way i would also find a job that doesn't move at a fast pace. find an office job or landscaping or maybe even a greeter at a store. suit your job to you don't just settle for anything.