I wish the answerer to assume a "normal looking" not obese or anorexic human male. The answers of money and social status are obvious. What is beyond these two criteria?
2007-11-05 02:51:51 · 17 answers · asked by wapermaster 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It depends on the mental & emotional health of the female.
If she loves herself, she wants a man who will treat her well.
A man with a positive, & hopeful attitude and outlook.
Confidence is a big one. A man who can compromise and be a good partner for her in this life. A man who will support & assist her in achieving her dreams & goals.
A man who thinks she is VERY attractive and intelligent.
She also wants a man who will not HER abuse HIM.
2007-11-05 03:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by Yam King 7 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to look deeper then the surface stuff and look at what this guys' "assets" represent. First you described a guy who's poor AND has no ambition AND has bad hygiene. Basically, you're going to lose the woman at lack of ambition and bad hygiene. Then you describe a guy who's confident, educated, good hearted and believes in himself. You don't even need to include the six figure income part or the working out part. Without talking about money, these two men are TOTALLY different people just due to their beliefs and approaches to life. One is confident, ambitious and going places in life. The other is weak, stuck in a rut and only getting worse. Here's the thing: women are attracted to the QUALITIES that successful men have. You don't have to be rich to exude these qualities (although being rich doesn't hurt and often comes as a by-product of having those qualities). If you are a confident, ambitious, positive person who presents himself the best way he can and is happy and believes in himself, you will be successful with women.
2016-04-02 06:03:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well most women don't want to find a guy without a job or some sort of income. Social status ? I look for common grounds to share with that person....opposites may attract but I find that people should find people who have general things in common.
You marry to share the rest of your lives together, sharing things in common makes more sense. Not saying that doing something different than your spouse is bad . We all need a break from one another or maybe your spouse has never tried something that you have experienced and would love to try.
2007-11-05 03:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by cocoamoe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Money and social status are both on the very bottom of my list. I could care less how much a man is worth or what his status in the world is.
I want someone that treats others the way he wants to be treated -- with respect.
Secondly, he must have the ability to make me laugh.
2007-11-05 03:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by Vera C 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know where you get your ideas on whom women like to date, but you've got it all wrong...it's all about the personality. I don't care about a man's social status or how much money he makes. I am an independant woman, and have no trouble making my own money. Social status doesn't even factor into the equation. Women want a man who can make them laugh, listen to their troubles, and are willing and able to help work as a team...not one person doing all of the work. We want respect, and a caring, fun loving partner.
2007-11-05 03:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by You asked, I answered 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A nice backside...no, really...BEFORE the above-mentioned attributes, I 'look' for someone who genuinely cares about others. Not in a Pollyanna-ish way, just noticing that other people exist and make allowances for them. There is some truth in how a man treats his family is a good indication of how he'll treat you.
2007-11-06 08:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by Rev Debi Brady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have these two things, I advise you (sincerely) not to show them or to depend on them in attracting women. Look for the one who loves you for what you are.
On the other hand, work on yourself, be a better man.
2007-11-05 04:00:16 · answer #7 · answered by Psychological Moment 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
According to my wife, she was just looking for a guy that was normal. No emotional baggage, not controlling, that honestly wanted to "share" a life with someone.
2007-11-05 03:05:37 · answer #8 · answered by lonewolfdlw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That might be your criteria, but it's not mine. I look for quality of character and genuine kindness before I look at anything else.
2007-11-05 05:24:44 · answer #9 · answered by milomax 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personality and interests are very important. Looks fade, but their personality will always be the same. Money is not everything and really does not make you happy. I have had both and love is much more important.
2007-11-05 03:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋