Okay I am a gay guy.There was a seemingly straight guy online lastnight (very butch) who hit me up online wanting to hookup with me for oral/anal sex . He made it clear to me that he lives with his wife and two kids before I agreed to this .His wife is aware of his attraction to guys and is acceptable of it . I go over to his house and his wife is sitting in the livingroom while me and this guy go to his bedroom and start F****ng . His kids (ages two and three ) are asleep in the next room . Is this crazy or what ? Or does it not surprise you that this is how things are in the modern world ?
2007-11-05 02:43:13 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The both of you are depraved individuals. He for allowing this and you for your participation. You really need to be violated.
2007-11-05 02:48:26 · answer #1 · answered by Charles WE 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I don't feel surprised by this, just a bit ambiguous about how you expect me to feel.
Am I supposed to feel shock that you went around to his home after meeting online? No, maybe by the speed.
That she accepted it? No, my wife accepts my bisexuality, but wouldn't allow me to just have someone here without her taking part. And no way on Earth if the kids were here, and they're adults.
That the kids were in the next room? If you have kids of that age, what are you going to do for sex anyway? Do you get rid of them to grandparents before you and your wife copulate?
If the husbands locked the door to prevent any unwelcome intrusion, whats the problem?
2007-11-05 06:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by paof2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a little strange, but I guess of the wife is OK with it, then whatever floats his boat. I don't know about the kids sleeping in the next room. What if one woke up and walked in? That would really be something to explain. I also need to ask, do you sleep with everyone you meet online? I hope you are protecting yourself. If you are using protection, then have fun!
2007-11-05 02:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by mamarivers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would surprise me is that you would have so little self respect to do that. Not only in front of his wife, but in front of innocent children. How desperate are you? How low can one person sink when it comes to sexual gratification? Then to come on line and brag about it. More than the straight man, you disgust me! With all the negative that the gay community has to fight you feed the fire even more. I am certainly glad or at the very least hope you are the minority!
2007-11-05 02:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No thats definately a bit wrong and fcuked up! Not to mention extremely selfish on the husbands part. Selfish because of his little kids sleeping in the next room and selfish because even if his wife is ok with it doesn't mean he should just nip upstairs with gay fcuk buddy while shes downstairs watching CSI.
2007-11-05 02:47:43 · answer #5 · answered by juicy_satsuma 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My thing is, where is your self- respect? You go into a man's home, who is married BTW and have sex with him with his children in the next room! The bottom line is, you've committed adultery! It doesn't matter what the sex of the other person is! Anyone who goes outside of a committed relationship and has sex has committed adultery (that is, if what you're saying is the truth). It doesn't look good at all.
2007-11-05 04:24:14 · answer #6 · answered by Pnthr wmn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually that is quite 'insane' if you have an dignity why would you even think of doing that.
no these arent modern things in the world .but people like you are the ones who make it modern
2007-11-05 02:48:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's good that this couple (and I am assuming that the husband is bisexual) is open enough to accept the fact and is trying to find a constructive way to channel the husband's attraction to guys. Although the social norm is that we take one partner for life, I do not believe that monogamy neccesarily equates to love (e.g. Muslim society where guys are allowed to take up to 4 (i think) wives). I think the important thing here is that the wife trusts the husband that at the end of the day, she will be the one the he comes home to and that he is committed to; and that the husband is responsible enough to respect and uphold that trust.
2007-11-05 02:52:47 · answer #8 · answered by Azrael 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It all sounds a bit crazy to me, but apparently these two have an understanding that works for them. This is how things are in this crazy world we live in.
2007-11-05 02:48:06 · answer #9 · answered by froggsfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should anything surprise me these days? We ARE in Hell. Only in Hell would those children sleep through their Daddy's misdeeds.
2007-11-05 02:47:37 · answer #10 · answered by midnite rainbow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As messed up as that is...I'm not surprised...there's all kinds of people in this world...
2007-11-05 03:49:43 · answer #11 · answered by soultrouble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋