My old boyfriend put a restraining order on me and it expires tomorrow. He now has a (soon to be EX) WIFE but I know he married her to seek revenge on me. I have to see him again. I am thinking of stopping by to give his old lady a visit to set the record straight. I have to win him over again if it is the last thing I do. I am very sneaky I am thinking about setting up a camp on the side of his house.. he lives in the mountains on 5 acres. I had him from the get go and this is true love. Please. If you have advise to make this work let me know. I am going to do all I can tomorrow. I need all the help I can get.
2007-11-05 02:06:42 · 25 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
PS- he has no kids with that lady so I think that betters our chance of being together again. This is not fair how do I take control of our lives again???? I am so frustrated I dont know what to do
2007-11-05 02:06:54 · update #1
*ALSO* I know he wants to be with me deep down. I know once he sees me again his feelings will change. We went throguh so much this has to be time to reunite as one. I feel it in my soul
2007-11-05 02:07:11 · update #2
im a hopeless romantic - I dont see how he could treat me like this
2007-11-05 02:07:34 · update #3
it looks kinda obvious to me that you gotta put that other woman in hospital
why dont you take your baby with you to cough all over her that should do the trick , lol
all the best
Ian :)
2007-11-05 02:16:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Trust me when i tell you he doesn't want to see you. If he had wanted to see you then he would have asked judge to dismiss the restraining order. If you go to him immediatly after it has expired he will return to court to ask for a permanent one. I have been on both sides of restraining orders and know it makes it very frustating to be told you can't see someone. I am certain though that in your case it is best if you do not seek him out. Also if you mess with the wife (soon to be ex as you say) then that in itself may drive them back together. Seems as though he has moved on and you are stuck in the pre cant stand each other days. If you insist on poking at this dead dog though... Please for your own good do so with a very nice letter. Enclose a picture if you must but give him the oppertunity to hear what you have to say before you two having to see each other. Send him a very nice card explaining whatever it is you want to tell him and if he responds saying he does in deed want you back then by all means go for it. However if he doesn't respond or responds asking ( or telling ) you to leave him alone then respect that. If you are truely in love with him then you would want him to be happy. If you still cant get over him then do yourself a favor and seek help. Nothing good will come of chasing a man who deosn't want to be with you. Not only will you frustate him but you will hurt more yourself.
2007-11-05 02:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by Erich the TIGER FAN !!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on!!! Don't even bother with this guy! Whay would you want to??? If he got a restraining order against you that means he is NOT intersted in you and wants you to STAY AWAY from him! You are deluding yourself if you think he is still in love with you and could possibly ever want you back...Have some self esteem and move on and find a new love!!! If you do any of the things that you mentioned then he is going to consider you a wacko! If you absolutley must contact him then write him a letter stating your feelings and put the ball in his court and let him choose to contact you. Otherwise do yourself a favor and move on!
2007-11-05 02:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me such as you're able to have a clean restraining order on then you definitely. actual love does not could desire to be sneaky or vengeful. the assist you like is psychological. i'm no longer attempting to be mean, merely honest. Get the nicely suited style of help now till now you do something you will experience sorry approximately.
2016-10-03 09:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you better double check the restraining order and make sure it isn't extended.
Either way, expect to be arrested on sight.
This is your defense:
"Judge, I stayed away from stalking and threatening until the minute after the restraining order was up. what is wrong with that?"
I second the answer about seeking counseling
2007-11-05 05:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by Barry C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How he could treat you like this. Obviously something is wrong here, he placed a restrainging order on you. Honor it whether or not the restraining order is valid. Stay away from him. If he secretly wanted to be with you, he would not have placed a restraining order on you.
You need to find something else to fixate your life on, find another guy and move on. This is not the one for you, leave him alone and allow him to continue his life.
2007-11-05 02:12:44 · answer #6 · answered by labken1817 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get some psychological counseling. Getting rejected is a painful experience. Sometimes it makes people crazy.
The man is not interested in you. You will have to learn to deal with it,or it will make you crazy.
I know a guy who got dumped by a girl about 33 years ago. He has never recovered and never led a normal life after being rejected.
2007-11-05 02:12:37 · answer #7 · answered by regerugged 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My first thought here was psychological help. Your obsession with this guy seems pretty scary! However, if you feel you must pursue this, send him a picture and a reminder. If your response from him is another restraining order, give it up! That is, unless you want to go to jail! =-)
2007-11-05 02:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you hed be with you. He aint. He put a restraning order on you. He doesnt want to know. Stalking him will get you with another valid restraining order or in prison.
Good luck with that new restraining order!
2007-11-05 02:29:49 · answer #9 · answered by rikkufairyglade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek professional help. You will just get arrested and have a neew restraining order against you with possible criminal charges.
2007-11-05 02:42:04 · answer #10 · answered by A R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happened to the boyfriend of 4 years that you've written about in your other posts. Does he know about your obsession with your ex?
2007-11-05 11:26:47 · answer #11 · answered by kozychic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋