I am from a well off family in my caountry. but i cant stand when i shopekeeper talks to me seeing wheather i am expensively dressed. then i loose my identy. who am i..really i forgate something....okkk , they talk to me wheather i have good money and nice dress. may be it hurts my ego( idont think i hv earnet or asdad)
i feel cheap, i feel inferior for this because as a human i have to talk like others.
2007-11-05 01:36:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
be who you are if it isnt good enough for some elitest then your better off without them - best of luck!
2007-11-05 01:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by Happily Hippy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being "well off" in your country is not the United States.If this is the case and the majority of people are poor than they will do this. It is envy and sin No matter what your religion is. If you are from the United States people who have wealth and we have social problems like drugs, alcohol, and homelessness
are treated better and the poor are often neglected. Some people can lose their wealth just as easily as they got so be grateful and don't have a complex as to what other people think of you. In my city there is an island called Palm Beach Multi million dollar homes, actors, royalty, and even Donald Trump live there. People are so nice to them because they have money. I am sure if they went broke and some have they will lose all their friends and their identity too. Going banckrupt has even caused some of them to commit suicide
Don't let jeaolus people make you feel inferior you were blessed and your family and that does not make you a bad person. If you have feelings like this take some money and feed a hungry family or donate time nd money to a good charity but do not do it to show off...it will make you feel richly rewarded with more than anything you can buy. Do not listen to the mean postings about your spelling these people don't spell without it!
2007-11-05 01:58:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would shop the shops that do not do these things. They are there I don't know where you live but there are people everywhere that do as you say these shopkeepers are doing.
I know several shopkeepers in America that live quiet lives of desperation and do the same type of thing. It is human nature and part of your upbringing. Maybe you should take a look at the people that have the other side of that problem to deal with?
2007-11-05 01:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Child,
I can see that you are a spoilt brat That is why you get nervous when people try to judge you as you are.Even if it may be that your foreigner status may be creating some problems in their response to you this is bound to happen.Things perhaps which you might feel are normal may appear out of focus for the other persons. But do not for that purpose remain in seclusion. Increase your contact with people and you will find that as the edges rub of you can go on smoothely with life.When you are ascending a hill, there is no point in complaining on the ascending hight making you breatheless.
If you crave for being talked to we can always meet on YQA
2007-11-05 01:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by Prabhakar G 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Spell check, yeah?
Not sure what you're wanting... But, if you're mad that they treat you like a rich person, then just deal with it. It's in their best interest to treat the rich better, because the rich can pay out more. If it's that you're mad they question your ability to pay, then, again, they're just trying to get a feel for you.
Get over it. Life isn't rainbows and kittens all the time, so yeah, unpleasentness will reign. Deal.
2007-11-05 03:46:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Bible says that God is no respecter of persons. In other words, He thinks of all of us equally whether we are rich or poor. We all have the opportunity to have a relationship with Him through Jesus Christ, His only begotten Son. If God loves us, who cares what others think?
2007-11-05 03:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by Ris Depakote 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pay attention to what others think about you. Be who you are. Love yourself; because if you don't love yourself how can you expect others to love you? If you don't respect yourself, how can you expect others to respect you?
Besides, people will always talk. It's what they do. No matter what YOU do. So just keep doing what you think is right and let them do what they think is right.
It's time to raise your self-esteem. Go eat a chocolate bar and grab a dictionary, while you're on the way.
2007-11-05 01:40:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to talk, talk...and maybe tell those shopkeepers off if needed. Real humans don't care what you're wearing, how much money u have, what you look like... so just tell them off and find real people to talk to...I guess that's all I can say...
2007-11-05 01:44:48 · answer #8 · answered by Thorn within a rose bush 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not the clothes you wear or your bank account. You are not even who your family is. You are not what you own not even what you can do. Only you can answer this ... who are you really? The big "who" of who you are. If you believe in God then you are a child of God. If you are a naturalist then you are an extension of nature. Ignore what people think of you. It doesn't matter in the grander scale of things. The only one whose opinion matters is God.
2007-11-05 01:51:46 · answer #9 · answered by reg 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are mad because store clerks talk to you because you are dressed nicely? Isn't that better than the alternative? Some people are followed in stores because of their ethnicity or accused of being a terrorist by some inbred, redneck.
2007-11-05 01:40:35 · answer #10 · answered by gemneye70 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋