For example, being used, lied to, ripping me off, physically harming. They got away with purposefully harming me at various points in my life, I wasn't able to confront people from small to very bad abuses back then, because I was weak, and bad people target weak people (who were made weak because they came from an abusive past). Now it's too late to get in their face, but I don't want them to pass through their life without knowing, I want them to worry about THEIR karma.
2007-11-04 22:09:41 · 6 answers · asked by SQD 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
The best revenge is to be successful. Paying people back is nothing to aspire to nor will it make things right. You will still be reacting to the negatives in life. Let all of that slide and start to live free of all revengeful hateful feelings. You are hurting yourself but don't see it yet.
2007-11-04 23:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must forgive them and pray for them. Turn from the past and look toward the future. We have all suffered wrongs from others and plotting revenge keeps us mired in unpleasantness and unable to enjoy the many blessings we so often take for granted.
2007-11-04 22:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by EDWIN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You now have a list of people you do not wish to meet again - thats harmless revenge
2007-11-04 22:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by DavidC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worry about your OWN karma.
Revenge harms your karma, not theirs. Their karma is already taken care of.
2007-11-04 22:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by gaelicspawn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, that's kind of the antithesis of buddhism. It's far more important for you to forgive them than it is for them to know they hurt you.
Let it go. Be confident in the knowledge that the universe finds it's own balance.
2007-11-04 22:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by †®€Åç∫€ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
burn the list and get over it
2007-11-04 22:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋