I'm good looking, 19 never had a girlfriend. In my lifetime i asked out 11 girls and all of them said no. what's is the deal here? what happeneds if you get a girlfriend. I feel like i'm missing out on a world!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-04 19:43:38 · 17 answers · asked by refreshe123d 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
just keep trying.. your still young.. just talk to them.. say you already have a grilfriend and they will want you.. and so on..
2007-11-04 19:46:34 · answer #1 · answered by tassiequartz 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Having a girlfriend is a step towards getting married. Sometimes in order for you to have one would be by having the same interests as that girl. And when youraround one... talk less about your self and keep on asking about her and what she likes. Listening skills are what a girl looks for in a man.
Another thing would be consistency. Once you start conversing with a girl... follow it up with things like "when can we meet again?"... "I've had such a great time.. maybe we could hang out some more" these lines are called "tester" lines wherein her response would give you an idea if shes in to you or not"
There are a lot of other ways to get one but just try those for now :D ciao!
2007-11-05 03:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by Czar 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Geez, i thought that by 19 you'd have realised that its not all about being good looking.
Ok sorry that was a bit harsh, but perhaps you need to stop thinking of a girlfriend as a 'thing' that you have. A gf is a person you need to care about and look after, so if you're just after one for show or bodily action, then you may have to reassess your values.
2007-11-05 03:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its ok..im 21 and never had gf..bc i didnt want to so our situation s a bit diff.(and im not gay)maybe bc i had a hard life and i also was member of us navy seals,u know i really dont have time for this.but hey ur just 19,sooo young and i bet u enjoy ur time much better when u datin with adult girls!forget those 11 stupid teen sluts thts all i can say dude take care!
2007-11-05 03:56:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude your 19 and you have only asked out 11 girls? You got to get out there and keep trying. You'll get turned down, everyone does. Don't give up. Confidence is key.
2007-11-05 03:49:05 · answer #5 · answered by Hate the ignorant 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cause you're ugly and your mama dresses you funny....JK
EDIT-Okay, sorry, if you want some real advice? Stop worrying about getting a girlfriend so much and focus on making yourself a happy person. Find out who YOU are, and what makes you happy, and you may be surprised to find you attract girls to you once you are happy with yourself single.
Also, take some time to learn something about women. Try to become friends with some, learn how they tick....You sound so desperate just to have ANY girlfriend, how would any girl feel special if you asked her out? It wouldn't matter if you were drop dead gorgeous, girls can smell desperation from a mile away, and to be asked out by a guy who seems desperate does NOT make most women feel good.
2007-11-05 03:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by Bruja 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Stop trying too hard! Just be your natural self, when you meet a girl take it easy don't ask her to be your G/F from the second minute of your meeting wait till she is absolutely comfortable with you and vice versa! Best of luck!!!
2007-11-05 03:57:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
11?? DUDE, GET OUT THERE and ask some girls!! It may take 100! If you have the right attitude, you WILL get 1 to say yes.
2007-11-05 03:47:11 · answer #8 · answered by Whynot 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Asking them out and being good-looking isn't enough. The girls actually have to like you. Have a crack at being nice to them (not too obsequious), and make them laugh.
2007-11-05 03:48:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are just 19. No need to panic.
2007-11-05 03:53:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't know, ask someone who knows you better, may be you have to be smart about it and just be friends first, but act cool around them and make them want you with quick wit and funny jokes.
2007-11-05 03:48:05 · answer #11 · answered by Smirnoffette! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋