i am a boy on 16, and I think that i have a thing for male?

Question

i am a boy on 16, and I think that i have a thing for male.
It is not that i don't like girls (i got a girlfriend, and i really like here) but of some reason i can only think about my best frend(male)... so i'm really confused...
i have benn asking my sister for advice, but it'd help...
probly. because she is a gay-yaoi fan... -_-'
can anyone help my??
am i a bi??
or what??

Answer 1

Ay 16 you can be anything you like. You are human, you are a sexual being. Having sex with another guy does not make you gay or bi any more than having sex with a girl makes you straight. Most men are attracted to other men from time to time, it is perfectly normal. If most of your sexual fantasies are towards other men and if you fall in love with men then you are probably gay. If most of your sexual fantasies are towards women and you fall in love with women then you are probably straight.

You don't need to label yourself and no-one else can do it for you. Explore your sexuality, learn about yourself. If you don't enjoy it, stop doing it. If you enjoy it, carry on.

Answer 2

You are probably either gay or bi, straight guys don't doubt their sexuality very often or at least they don't talk about it publicly, maybe they do and I just don't know it because I never have. It actually speaks more to the society we live in than anything wrong with gays and bis. It's considered "normal" to be heterosexual and any deviation from that leads to doubt.

It's normal to be confused. You need to sort out your feelings and maybe talk to your best friend and gauge his response. If he's not gay, don't push it or you could lose a friend.
Remember however, that you are in a relationship and there is an expectation of loyalty, don't cheat on your girlfriend and don't string her along if you think you're really gay.

Maybe some of the homosexual answerers can help you better, they've probably been there.

Answer 3

It's likely that you're a little bit bi. No worries though right, you can still be straight in everyone else's eyes if you want to be.

Maybe you should talk to your male friend about it. See how he feels ;)

Answer 4

i would say bi maybe or you might just be in that confused state that many gay people go through before they know for sure that they're gay. or maybe even bi-curious.

well good luck!

Answer 5

if you have to ask yourself or even question that you might be gay then you most likely are, but becareful how you go about this with your 'male friend'

Answer 6

If you like boys, nothing wrong with you.

Answer 7

please educate yourself if this is a problem for you -- google pfox, pflag, narth -- there is a lot of information out there, don't just rely on people your own age

Answer 8

Weirdo pervert.

Answer 9

bisexual