And they always think you're smart, and you're not outgoing, and you're quiet. . .I hate the way I look because I'm always stereotyped as a nerd!!
2007-11-04 18:55:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Yup
cuz i have the same problem
The only will try to know you and be your own friend are the doctors or your teachers and your books
I am in the fifth year pharmacy and the only friends i have are my doctors and my pharmacy teachers and no way to have others due to the same thing happening to you
By the way ..i am not look'n nerd at all as an appearence but my character doing so..
Look iam not doing anything wrong ....Plus I am here for learning and getting information..Who wants me like that.Ok but who gonna doing comments on me and making fun of me ....in the class..i am doing my best to get him ashamed of himself by answering all the questions the teacher asking and of course no response from those makin fun of me ...so the doctor punishes them by either gett'n them out or shouting to them....and by the way too my doctor knows so too and know who is exactly doing so with me....
CONCENTRATE on your work and let others do what they want to do ....and what they want to say..Each has its own character and concepts...Not your mistake ...
Be your self and the more you are neglecting them and giving them your shouldern ..you will find that some of them will feel their faults and find that you r doing nothing and this your nature and they will revise their actions and gett'n ashamed of their selves..
Really.Don't care..But for me ..there is another reason gett'n them mad of me....If you want to know it ..Email me or say yes and i will send it to you through the email
2007-11-04 19:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by Radical Vampire 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I don't think you are right about nerd stereotypes anymore. Most people with any sense know that the nerds (guys) make great friends/dates/husbands usually, as they are good listeners, they are devoted, they are industrious workers, and really appreciative of all the little things. In high school (several years ago LOL!) I dated a fair amount of "nerds" as I knew they were interested in me as a whole person, not just getting into my pants. The jocks were always asking me out, but I had no intention of being with someone whose IQ was the same (or less than) my dogs. Sorry jocks! LOL! If you hate the way you look, change it up. Get a punky new hair cut and some "cool" clothes. Whatever it is that makes you feel nerdy, (looks wise) you can change it. Remember though that YOU can introduce yourself to a new group of people. You don't have to wait for them to come to you. Have confidence! Nothing is more attractive than a confident person. Have the attitude that if they don't want to get to know you, that it is their loss.
2007-11-05 03:09:02 · answer #2 · answered by mama29 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheer up there lil dude! Your labeled that way because you let them! I myself am not a nerd but I helped out a lot of them .I don't know why, But any way the first thing is that you have a confidence problem (a big one) Guess what? Confidence is free! It's up to you to apply it. You have to play the cards that God gave you .Don't dwell! It's up to you to get out there and change things . You have a brain USE IT!
2007-11-05 03:34:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why worry, each person is unique. Accept what you are, accept yourself and you will stop worrying. Each problem has a solution, once you have no solution for a situation or any sort, thats a fact and you must accept it. How can anybody learn to like you if you hate yourself? Learn to love yourself, that's the only way.
2007-11-05 03:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by Vher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's more about the way you carry yourself... do you slouch? Try good posture, eye contact, and a big smile... you can work on your appearance on your own terms :) I know it sucks that people judge based on what they can see without getting to know you, but there's no way around that. All you can do is look great and then there's nothing to worry about.
2007-11-05 02:59:34 · answer #5 · answered by la-la-lauren 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
intimate that you're in some way - in any way - connected to the media. This world's values are skewed in that direction currently. Maybe a good, may be a bad thing, who can say? Lie your head off, but do it subtly...
2007-11-05 03:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by c0cky 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Emo, you know they don't want to get to know you because you are too cool for them. They don't get your essence. If someone is not wanting to get to know someone else because of the way they look, then that one person is sorely missing out. You never know where you are gonna find the angels living among us.
2007-11-05 03:20:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ar you talking as a nerd
2007-11-05 03:00:30 · answer #8 · answered by bad bob 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋