Question about sex?

Question

I have been going out with my girlfreind for almost a year now. We just started having sex and I need some tips because I dont know what im doing. IF you guys could recomend some positions and what ever you think is important during sex please dont hold back. Thanks

Answer 1

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Answer 2

Yes I have a few for you,
First think about it in this way, after I do this will it change my life, make it better or worse. If you can live with your answers then maybe your ready for the head games that you and your partner will go thru after you become sexually active. I call this "The Check up from the neck up"!

1. Use birth control, if you and her don't understand it read up on it. Use a condom even if no contact is planned.
2. First you have to learn a little more then the two parts fit into each other and move. A women has to be ready for penatration or it hurts. If it is her first time she should see a doctor before doing it for her health and a check up from the waist down. If she has a hyem, then this is to be broke by you, if you do it wrong it will hurt a lot, if you do it right, it will hurt for a few mins. go slow a little at a time as she is excepting you she will relax and it will go in easier. She needs to be lubed, i.e. natural lube is her wetness. She needs to be turned on, the act and thinking about it is a start, but she should take your hand and explan the parts and where to touch. Remember she is a girl, not a boxing glove. she is soft and very tender to the touch. If you do this, treat her with respect and feelings. Sex for a woman is emosional and then phyical, for you it is all phyical. It can be good or bad for her, it is never bad for a guy.

Positions: guy on top laying down, knees drawn up with feet at her butt and you flat on top of her, with your weight supported off of her with your arms at first so not to smash her into the bed. i.e. The bed room is always best for the first time. Having a bathroom close by for her afterward is nice too. Holding her in your arms afterward is very good, she will need this to know she is wanted and that you care for her.

other positions,
guy on his back, woman on top, legs on both side of his waist, and squating over him. She hold it and lines it up and lowers herself onto you.

on your side, left or right. you knees behind her on her knees, her chest on the bed.

That should be enough for you for a while. A book 101 positions by Masters and johnsons is in the libary.

Answer 3

There are numerous books and play by play videos (not porn)
available for you to use as references on positions. Remember variety is the spice of life. Try to avoid the same routine every time and vary locations. As far as the passion.......it's either there or it isn't, you can't make that happen. Every woman is different in regards to what turns her on. Pay strict attention to her body movements and listen to the sounds she makes when you do that thing you do so well. Try to avoid asking her questions while you are making love but do tell her to feel free to guide and direct you during play. Foreplay is important and it doesn't start in the bedroom, it is constant. Please them, tease them and squeeze them. It may be difficult at first because you are nervous about pleasing her, but try to just lose yourself and feel the moment .....what your body and her body are telling you feels good, go with the emotion, smells and senses at that time. Anything goes as long as it is pleasing to you both. Learning all of this together is half the fun.........it takes time, practice and patience.

Answer 4

First thing is to be safe and make sure that you are both comfortable with what you are doing, the whole time. As for positions stick with the basic missionary and work your way from there. Do your research. Go to the book store and buy a book, or watch Talk Sue with Sue on Oxygen on Sunday nights. But number one is to be safe and make sure that it is something that you both want to do and are comfortable with it. Enjoy and be safe

Answer 5

- Protection and Caution... If you don't like for unwanted pregnancies and/or other mishaps to occur, this is vital.
- Communication... Let her know what gratifies you and encourage her to share what makes her feel good...without any judgement.
- Open-mindedness... It's fun to experiment and explore different areas within the wonderful realm of sex. It makes sex more interesting and not something to grow accustomed to after being together for a substantial amount of time.
- Constantly learning... Educate yourself about the female anatomy from a sexual perspective, such as the stimulation of the clitoris for example, and other errogenous zones of the female body, as well as, other forms of sexual play, both orally and manually. She may be interested in learning about the male errogenous zones, and other activities to make sexual play much more stimulating and fulfilling on your end as well.

Answer 6

Buy the karma sutra or something similar flip through it together. Experiment. She will tell you what she likes & doesnt like, conversly tell her the same. Doggie style, her riding you, & you on top are popular favorites. Some positions will depend on you having enough strength.
If you are worried about being bad, ask her if you are any good but the best way to tell is if she wants to keep going.

Answer 7

alright bro, first off, chicks dig it on top, cuz they can control the speed and amount of penetration and u can play w/her c l i t while she'z bouncing on your d i c k.

2nd, doggy is always cool cuz u can watch it go in and out... plus u can reach over and play with her titties or her c l i t.

3 Missionary is romantic for chicks cuz u can kiss em while ur scre win em. Kiss her neck and **** a lot.

GENERAL TIPS
make sure she's wet before u stick it in, finger it or lick it. If it smells like tuna down there then take a shower w/her and scrub her up all good... she'll think its romantic.

If you need more tips or positions, such as reverse cowgirl, hit me up bro
GO HIT IT TIGER!!!

Answer 8

Make sure you are nice and gentle to her. Take it slow at first and do what you feel comfortable with (maybe missionary or her on top would be a good start), it will be awkward and instantly awful if you try to do stuff that you don't feel comfortable with but as your relationship progresses you will be able to explore more and more things with each other. Good luck.

Answer 9

First find out what you sexual style is. Try all kinds of positions. Depending on what your both into is a big help. If you wanna go kinky put her up in doggy with a bandana in her mouth and pull back on it a little, or little tugs on her hair, if shes into it proceed to a little dirty talk. if not get of the whips, chains and handcuffs because more then likely you'll never use them.

Answer 10

Being able to have sex in many position is overrated.

What counts is how you feel during sex!

Take baths together and practice oral sex on each other.

Make sure you try Harder to make her enjoy the sex and you'll never be disapointed!

Go Figure!