I know I shouldn't be asking this. But I just don't want him to feel bad about me for being very overprotective and suspicious to him, adding the fact that we're on a long distance relationship. I just moved to the US recently and we've been away for like 3 months already. I'm not comfortable about our situation but we really want to continue our relationship and he's been so loyal to me all these times. I get so insecured when girls look at him. I trust him but the fear just kills me. I cannot afford it- I cannot afford losing him. Please give me some advice on this.
2007-11-04 13:33:53 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and pls don't advice me to let go of him because i wont and i cant.
2007-11-04 15:24:23 · update #1
Well if ur sure about ur boyfriend.....why fear .......Dont let the fear take over u.......U take over the fear ........Keep in touch with ur Boyfriend.......................Enjoy........
2007-11-04 13:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by dRaGoOn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, i know exactly what you mean, ugh... except in my case we come from the same city. but in any case i feel your pain. :D
if he hasnt given you reason to feel this way (rolling my eyes. haha j/k there) you need to figure out why are you overly suspicious and over protective.. it could be some underlying trust issues maybe? .
in the end those feelings can and will bring you down hard.
if you dont take care of it it could very well be the end if it.
without trust theres nothing....
my advice is ....communication -communication- communication.. you gotta talk to him.
time will tell and you will learn as you grow.
follow your gut feeling, in the end you'll find its right almost every time. :D
good luck gal
2007-11-04 14:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by dawnaj29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean you can't afford to lose him? lack of trust is a killer of relationships, if you are as insecure as you sound, you either need to be where he is, or you might as well let it go now.
2007-11-04 13:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
effective communication, if this can't be done or none of you can't afford it, it is better for you to end the relationship.
2007-11-04 13:38:18 · answer #4 · answered by firewall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to grow up a little and become more confident in yourself
2007-11-04 13:36:58 · answer #5 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋