we have sleepovers alot and i can tell we both feel something with eachother when we look at eachother sometimes, but we just get really shy then look away. we are both 15 years old, and i really just want to try sometihng out to see if i want to be bi or gay. please help me!!
2007-11-04 13:00:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
we have sleepovers alot and i can tell we both feel something with eachother when we look at eachother sometimes, but we just get really shy then look away. we are both 15 years old, and i really just want to try sometihng out to see if i want to be bi or gay. please help me!! i also dont know how to start anything with him, so if you have any ideas of how start up something?
2007-11-04 13:14:30 · update #1
how would i "go for it"???
2007-11-04 13:50:40 · update #2
My advise would be to go with what nature's causing you to feel. It takes a while to figure out if you're gay, straight, bi, and the same is also true for your friend. So take it easy, take it slow. There's no need for sex right now, but kissing and hugging and caring for each other can tell a lot. As an adult, a meaningful relationship will be one where you love the person on many levels over a long period of time. Do you emotionally care about this guy?
2007-11-04 13:27:22 · answer #1 · answered by funnynyboi83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with Josh, in conversation, mention you are bi & see what happens. He might jump on you & you dont have to say a thing. I wont say dont do it, you are too young, as it would be hypocritical, & if you want something bad enough, you will pursue it anyway, but do be aware friendships can change (for better or worse) if passion is exchanged. Just make sure you are preparedfor either outcome.
2007-11-04 13:25:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy calm down.
I am fifteen too.
Don't rush anything it will just confuse you. Sexual stuff would not be a good idea. Also if he is a good friend like you say he is than you could just tell him that you think you might be bi (don't say you like him) and he might reveal something to you who knows. But regardless please don't push yourself into anything the outcome is never good
take care and hey you can look me up on face book or something if you want i can talk to you about it
2007-11-04 13:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by Josh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess you freind has published the comparable question as you have. at as quickly as adult men dont rub their friends legs or pat their behinds (except playing activities) or touch their lips or nostril. i think of he's attempting to grant you some tricks as nicely. See in case you are able to boost the priority in an offhand way without admitting to something approximately your self and spot his reaction. perhaps you ought to hire Brokeback Mountain...or watch Will and ask your self...or another secure motor vehicle for communicate. good success
2016-10-15 01:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by benedick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to be gay or bi? Interesting... it sounds like your just a little confused. If you like him, and it sounds like he likes you possibly, than go for it! What do you have to lose? And if you're bi or gay doesn't matter. What matters if your relationship with him.
2007-11-04 13:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just find a hot tub and sit in it with him, naked, that's how it happened for me.
2007-11-04 14:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by PARKERD 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe if you guys are close, talk to him
about it.
2007-11-04 13:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by SLC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha how cute.
Go for it.
I went for it.
2007-11-04 13:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by Alan Retrobyte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋