She just called me and I told her I was on Yahoo answers and she ask me if I had something to drink and I said yes, she wants to talk to me seriously. She is feeling bad. What does that mean to you?
She probably wants to get back with me right?
2007-11-04 12:36:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Either that or she wants money and I don't mind helping her out, but she has to remember...she left me.
2007-11-04 12:38:18 · update #1
I will update this question once she leaves. Gotta go and get ready for the big one.
Thabnks for the answers thus far.
2007-11-04 12:58:38 · update #2
My ex was arrested for posession of Cocaine and wants me to help her get an attorney. I wrote her a check fopr $1,000.00 which she needs for retainer.
I thought she was going to say she was pregnant, but I got a hand full on this one. This is her first offense and probably won't be that bad. I don;t even know why I am telling everyone this, I guess maybe you all know someone that has been through this./ My view of this whole picture is that no matter what she and I had been through I always will love her and there's no better time to love someone when they world has whipped them so and they are at their lowest. Somehow, I strongly that this incident she got involved with will help her understand now that I am here for her and always have been. We may very well get back together when this is over. Who else did she have to go too. Both her parents are dead. I was the only one she had left that is still her friend and her coming over tonight has made me better.
2007-11-04 14:05:11 · update #3
Dont give her any money, that would be so pathetic! If she wants to get back together though, you might want to consider it. No money though, remember, she would only just be using you.
Edit: Sorry but I think you made the wrong choice with this, but thinking for yourself is better then letting someone else think for you I guess.
2007-11-04 12:41:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Be very carefull with your ex-wife until you can find out what she is up to. If she just wants a drink then you are an easy man to get one from and she knows that you are probally in love with her so, you'll do anything to see her. Don't be a push over for her even if you love her. She'll respect you more if you stand up for yourself and tell her that your busy. Women like men that are kinda hard to get and a little mystery. So play hard to get even if you want her really bad. This way she'll want you and you will have won her back with nothing more then sheer smarts. Good luck to you and God Bless you.
2007-11-04 12:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her in. She's probably been drinking and is thinking about old times. I don't know why people spend all that money and time on divorces if they're not going to stick with that decision. When people divorce then get back, they usually end up splitting again anyway. That is why I'm not getting married at all. Go to a bar or something and find yourself a new woman.
2007-11-04 12:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by Lia 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I dont think it means much more than perhaps she's familiar with you, and needs a fix. Why else would she ask if you had anything to drink? It may sound cruel.... The truth always hurts. Be sure to come back and let us know the end result.
2007-11-04 12:46:05 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
this is humorous so which you are able to use the expertise, "over-analyzing," because it relatively is exactly what my husband says I consistently do. You, my buddy, are nevertheless in love with your ex-spouse. you will possibly no longer comprehend it, admit it, or like it, despite the fact that this is there, deep down interior you. this does not propose which you're waiting to forgive her or to %. up the place you left off. It in basic terms potential, common and easily, which you like her and choose her. desire you have an surprising family members night staring on the movie jointly. despite the fact that else occurs, occurs. you are able to come to a determination. i think of all of us understand what your spouse might like. have exciting, and good success!
2016-10-15 01:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by benedick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she wants to get back with u because she probably miss you alot.like i misss my ex boyfriend me and him always think about each other.So she probably don't have no home. or she need help because she miss all the times she was spending with you .So when she comes over make up a dinner date an you 2 talk to each other like you love one an another.okay.or shes probably pregant.Thats what happens when a men gets marry if it ain't that .you know what that means she misses you an want to marry you again.
2007-11-04 12:43:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people change, most people don't. Yes, she is probably regretting her decision. If you let this happen, for your sake, I hope she is one of the few that change. Personally, I think that if she'll leave once, then she will leave again. It's your heart. Do with it what you want.
2007-11-04 12:44:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's feeling bad, she mite be missing you and may want to give it another go. Listen to what she has to say and if you really miss her and want to give it another go, then tell her. Remember the things that caused you to separate, talk about them aiming not go down that path again.
Good luck, hope it works out for you.
2007-11-04 12:44:02 · answer #8 · answered by Justme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To heck with these hypocrites that say don't give her any money. You're a big boy and it's your money.
Like they never paid for a little "companionship."
2007-11-04 13:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by kinky_scotty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to cut this woman out of your life and move on. She is just using you. Don't be a fool for anyone!
2007-11-04 16:51:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋