no smart aleck remarks, please!
2007-11-04 12:13:39 · 28 answers · asked by cowabunga 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
if you're scared don't do it.
2007-11-04 12:15:29 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley H 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
The key is lots of foreplay, kissing, taking off a garment, exploring a bit, kissing some more, etc.
Then get out the KY jelly (from the pharmacy) and have the guy (or you, if you're brave enough) rub down with lots of it.
Then he needs to slowly enter, giving you the option to stop, and he'll meet a barrier. He needs to push sharply, and it will hurt a little bit. But it lasts max 15 seconds and it's over forever.
Your vagina is built like an accordion with lots of folds. If your vagina can let a baby out...and they do every day...it can surely let his rod in. He just needs to go slowly until you're comfortable with his size. Then, let the fun begin!
TX Mom
2007-11-04 20:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is a little scared and nervous the first time. Please dont do it though if you are having second thoughts though. Loosing your virginity is a big deal and its something you will never get back. If you really love this man and want to do this just go very slow, use lots of lube and dont tense up. The more you tense the more it will hurt. Please please please use a condom too. You never know about people these days. You always have to be safe. Best wishes!
2007-11-04 20:18:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are too young to be doing it....whats the rush? You could mess things up regarding your feelings about sex in the future if you try to do something for the wrong reasons. Don't rush it.....it's not going anywhere.
2007-11-04 20:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by missourim43 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you're so afriad it will hurt. that means you are NOT ready for sex so stay away from it for a while until you are ready. Don't be pressured into it, just to keep a boyfriend, if he insists... He's NOT in love with you just in LUST like an animal.
2007-11-04 20:19:16 · answer #5 · answered by gone! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your vagina streches a lot, it will hurt the first time but that is because you are not used to it yet. Just make sure he goes slowly and make sure you are wet so it slides in easier. Good luck
2007-11-04 20:16:18 · answer #6 · answered by Betrayed and Insane 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just relax the more you focus on the pain the more you tense up.
2007-11-04 22:07:02 · answer #7 · answered by caminolargo76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and use plenty of lube.Be sure you really want to do it and your doing it for the right reasons.
ALSO MAKE SURE KNOW MATTER WHAT HE SAYS HE WILL USE A CONDOM IF HE WON'T,DON'T,OR REFUSES TO PUT ONE ON DON'T DO IT.BETTER SAFE THEN SORRY.
Good luck.
2007-11-04 20:19:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
are you talking about a tampon or male genetallia? Regardless, its the same place for both items....but don't do it until it is the right time and the right person or tampon brand.
2007-11-04 20:17:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you're scared, then that means you're not quite ready. Wait awhile until you're more comfortable
2007-11-04 20:17:06 · answer #10 · answered by I'mjustLikeU 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Experiment with yourself first. Practice makes perfect.
2007-11-04 20:17:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋