So my girlfriend and i have been dating for a month and shes ten years older than me, and she doesnt want me to party which seems like with anyone. So she breaks up with me EVERY freaking time I go out with my friends, maybe to try to ruin my night IDK and then wants me back the next day, and now she wants me back, but idk, I go to college and she should be happy for that, but I love her sooo much idk what to do about her ugh! And I only go out with the homies on friday nights, and the rest of the time im with her playing the guitar for her or doing something sweet for her, im so good to her and i never argue with her tho she sometimes wants to at those times i go out(tho ive ditched alot of parties/kickbacks for HER). What is up with her?!
2007-11-04 11:15:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It's not love it's control, and it doesn't get better it gets worse. Frankly she sounds like a bit@h. The next step is when she starts to hit you for doing things she doesn't want you to do. Are you sure you love her, would you put up with broken bones and blackened eyes for her? You've got to ask yourself that question
2007-11-04 11:56:10 · answer #1 · answered by nekhbet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to her. see what's truly going threw her head. if she doesn't respond with a serious answer, than you should break up with her. if she tells you that she just has a lot on her plate and that she's sorry, than she cares about you, keep her.
2007-11-04 19:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by Steph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes to have the control....think twice before you go back to her...it will only get worse...and dont let her trick u into coming back
2007-11-04 19:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by bubblyone 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she's an insecure control freak. you can't change her. put up with her or move on.
2007-11-04 19:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by kent_shakespear 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋