I have horrible grades? (HELP)?

Question

Im 16 and im a freshmen. I got held back in 1st and 6th grade. But my parents dont count 1st grade. They always tell ppl im supposed to be a sophomore.

Well, ive had problems since middle school with bullying and having like social anxiety from bullying. My grades are all F's, and have been like that since 6th grade. I always stayed home because of this anxiety. And this year ive missed about 20+ days already. When im in class, I dont know if its because im lazy or anxious, or just thinking if someoens staring at me or what. They passed me through middle school because of my age. Even when I failed. I dont know what it is. I dont want to drop out!, Ive already failed this semester from having so many absences. And it ends in January. How can I not F**K up my life?

Answer 1

Hey 2 me you should just forget about people....i'm in 8th grade now....and don't worry about failing its not the end of the world as long as u have a positive attitude everything will run smoothly....trust me people will talk about u look at u funny until the day u die thats never gonna change....but the bullying part u should really stand up and defend yourself...its not that hard...and please don't drop out it wont solve anything!! and the people that bully u r people who need more attention and they probably don't get it at home!!! there probably really slow or they jus wanna be idiots lol....but forget them don't let them bring u down!!! if you wanna talk more add me at [e-mail]

Answer 2

Have you talked to a counselor. Maybe you should. See if the counselor can have your teachers seat you in the back of the room so that you won't feel as if everyone is watching you. Report any bullying.

You need to take control of your life and not let others control you. Meet with your teachers individually and ask for help. Sounds like your parents are enabling your behavior if they let you stay home half of the quarter.

Join an after school activity. Try to make at least one friend.

Try night school if you're able to make up credits.

Good luck

Answer 3

Your grammar seems pretty good.except for that last sentence,and thats a good thing because it means the reason you're getting F's is because of your anxiety of being in class and not because you're stupid.
You need to remember that everyone gets bullied and these bullies dont just exist in schools.When you graduate or drop-out(whatever your choice),there's going to be bullies in the workforce and you need to learn how to deal with them in a civilized manner.Remember the real reson for school, you're not there to meet people or impress others by what you wear, you're there too learn, and prepare yourself for college.
Just stop worrying of what people think and try to work on your self-esteem, it's very important.Bullies usually pick on people that lack confidence.Just remeber droping-out isn't the easy way out like everyone says,if you drop out you're gonna have to work so hard for such little money, you most likely wont be happy.It's easier to work with your brain instead of busting your back.

Answer 4

First of all in all seriousness GET COUNSELING for your anxiety and maybe a prescription for it if you qualify. If your parents wont go for it then seek the help of your school counselor. Next evaluate yourself. Do you want to do better? Really? If so then get the work done. You will feel so much better once you do it. Also, try to find a friend. Start with one and build on it. You will be surprised at the results. Hope I've helped. Good luck!

Answer 5

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Answer 6

It's good that you are concerned about your grades, and that's ridicilous that they passed you even if you failed. That's totally unfair to you, because even if you are too old, you still need to understand the material to be able to comprehend the next year's classes. I am so sorry that that happened to you.
Talk to your counselor if you're not too embaressed, and as lame as it might sound, you should maybe try special ed. it's not bad, and it's not because you are mentally retarted, it's just because you are so far behind in your schooling. you might not understand material since you were in 6th grade, and you need special attention for that, which the special ed. program will give to you. you just need to work hard and you can eventually, deffinitely by next year be back on track :-)

please, please, please don't drop out! our society doesn't need smart people like you to drop out because they gave up.
I can guarantee you that once you show some concern for your grades, things will pick up. don't thinkabout it everyday, all the time once you start doing your work and going to school. don't worry about it for a few months until your good grades can even out with your bad grades (like until you have a C because you started working hard)
for the social problems, maybe you should switch schools?? like a new, fresh start!

Answer 7

The first thing that you can do is to stop feeling sorry for yourself, and making excuses. You should not have been passed and shoved along. It did you no good. You are on a disaster course.

Start studying , get professional psychological help and see what rt YOU can do before you completely ruin your future.

Answer 8

You are the victim of a terrible school system. Where were your teachers in all this bullying? Hiding under their desks probably. And then there are male teachers who really get off (and I mean GET OFF) on seeing smaller boys bullied by bigger ones. Don't expect any help from your principal, he or she is clutching retirement in one hand and covering his/her butt with the other. Get your parents involved. Your problem has nothing to do with your ability, it is a failure of each and every one of your teachers and administrators.

Answer 9

Try a alternative school. Most cities have these for students who have problems emotionally. That effects the classroom. See if you can be tested it might be a learning disability. If its anxiety that is considered a emotional disability you are a minor someone has to help you.

Answer 10

Try a charter school, I don't know where you live, but charter schools usually have a smaller population. With a better teacher to student ratio.