im in college and im still a virgin and i accept that fact and im proud in some way becuz if it was about a year ago when i first went to college any chance that i can get to do it i would jus take it. but i dont want that anymore i rather stay clean until my first love. i dont want to have random sex anymore but for some reason i jus cant help but to engage in watching erotic films every time i get the feeling that i want to spank my monkey. and watching it seems to mess up my interpretation on how girls are. i know girls arent jus gonna do me for the hell of it becuz im in college but i think about becuz maybe im watching too much. is there anyway i can stop thinking about sex and be less desperate? and i keep getting wet dreams..
2007-11-04 10:08:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
It is good that you are a virgin. Masturbating is completely normal and harmless, doesn't get anyone pregnant, and does not expose you to STDs.
Porn, on the other hand, is disgusting. Anyone who watches this bilge gets unhealthy ideas about the relationship between men and women and the nature of sex. Heavy porn watchers tend to find normal sex unsatisfying and honest relationships all but impossible.
Worse, by buying porn, you are supporting an industry that degrades and objectifies human beings. People of either sex who have sex for money are prostitutes, and having sex for money in front of a camera is the most degrading form of prostitution. The major crime organizations are heavily involved in making this crap, too, so you are helping to enrich the mob when you shell out money to get your jollies.
You are polluting your own mind, making criminals rich, and probably getting computer viruses. Oh, yeah, emptying your wallet, too. And the upside is a better hardon? Puleeeeze!
There are erotic images available (pictures, not action flicks) that show the beauty of the female human body without involving the woman in question in degrading actions. Get some good "art" magazines to help you get off. That way you are not supporting the porn industry but you are enriching your fantasy life, since you actually have to use your imagination and not just passively watch. Save yourself for the love of your life. That's a good idea. But porn watching may twist your ideas of what normal is to the extent that you will not recognise the perfect woman when she comes along.
2007-11-04 10:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by Maple 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-19 08:38:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, it's all about self-control. I mean, come on! If you're actually concerned enough to come on to this board and seek some kind of advice, that shows you are aware of what you perceive to be a serious issue.
Would you jump from a cliff just because the guy in front of you did? It's called self preservation, dude. So show some self preservation and re-direct your energies toward meaningful, constructive behaviour.
Help old ladies cross the street, or something. Become a volunteer. Tutor an immigrant and help him/her learn the English language. Anything, dude!!!
2007-11-04 10:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your in college...your at least 17~24...If your still getting wet dreams, with excessive porn masterbation...that makes no sense. Is that possible?
You can do what my friend did. It got so bad for him, he had to go to the "bathroom" at school at least 1/2 times a class. (And we have 6 classes 0.o)
What he did was, everytime he popped one/thought about sex, he would grab his earlobe, tug a bit, and then read something really fast/listen to the lecture.
Try that, it's random but lol try it.
2007-11-04 10:18:42 · answer #4 · answered by kobuchio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
regrettably it isn't the applicable format to talk this via fact it truly does require decrease to and fro dialect. My mine problem right it is what harm is he inflicting? Masturbation is favourite, everybody does it, some better than others. apparently you would be very much bowled over to confirm what share adult men masturbate any probability they get and maximum don't get sufficient possibilities. except he's excessively who prefer masturbation over intercourse with then you definitely the only genuine problem is the variety you sense approximately him doing it. i think of you will stumble on a help in his movements after he turns into accustom to you 2 residing at the same time..and specific allot of it's going to be via his loss of "unfastened time" additionally, i can assure you his mendacity is via embarrassment. you would be able to think of you're no longer being accusatory yet believe me, we are in a position to envision your voice. "speaking" to him approximately it is the 1st step in soliciting for a companion to alter who he/she is for you. you're able to make certain in case you opt to pass down that street already. i'd advise no longer stressful approximately lots till the day comes that he can no longer fulfill you. in case you purely have a difficulty with adult men masturbating, you have a protracted lonely life beforehand of you :-)
2016-11-10 06:48:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the term fucbuddy
2007-11-04 10:37:02 · answer #6 · answered by ChuckDeucez 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
there is no such thing as bad porn
2007-11-04 11:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋