For a women who is bisexual to be attracted to a cross dresser who has not had surgery and has male parts?
In other words - likes the idea of a male cross dressing.
What does this mean??? Is this wrong ? I'm confused..
Do people who are like that manage to have an actual relationship?
2007-11-04 07:39:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Would someone please tell me what it's like, is it frowned upon and do all cross dressers decide to have surgery? or do some just like looking like women but having male parts..
2007-11-04 07:40:47 · update #1
Sorry if i offended people, I didn't mean it in a nasty way when i said people 'like that' i don't have a problem with it, i think people should do whatever makes them feel good..
2007-11-04 07:59:17 · update #2
No, the majority of cross dressers do not have surgery and MOST of them are heterosexual. Those that do want to have surgery (or have already had it) are referred to as "transexuals" and are a much smaller portion of the population.
"Is it normal" is not a useful question to ask when you're talking about sexuality.
I will say this: The number of women who are attracted to cross dressing men, especially those who fully intend to stay male and are heterosexual, is very small. This means that you have a very big pond to play in.
There are a LOT of guys out there who hide transvestitism and want their woman to make them dress up, etc. Generally, they don't end up with people who are able to mesh well with them.
I'm sure they'd love to meet you!
Add a "detail" to your question if you're looking for more information (my e-mail doesn't seem to work).
2007-11-04 07:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a cross dresser would not have surgery, you seem to be confusing cross dressers with transsexuals, who feel they are assigned at birth the wrong sex and correct the error. cross dressers are all about the clothes, and there is nothing wrong with being attracted to it lol.
2007-11-04 15:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you are confusing cross-dressing with transsexual.
my understanding is that crossdressers are men who like women for sex but like to dress in women's clothing.
male to female transexuals are men who actually are women born in men's bodies and seek surgery to correct this.
and yes "people like that" as you put it do manage to have actual relationships.
so, you have to find out if the guy that you are attracted to is a crossdresser or a transexual. and is he attracted to you.
stop thinking in terms of "normal"...find what works for you.
2007-11-04 15:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by waterlin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it should be normal i would be the guy in that situation
2007-11-04 15:42:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is blind - anything is possible in love.
2007-11-04 15:43:20 · answer #5 · answered by Paul Hxyz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
none of this is normal behavior
2007-11-04 15:42:22 · answer #6 · answered by hghostinme 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋