when you are hurt so bad and when you get the chance to talk, you feel like nothing happened? as if it was a new day where the sun has splayed its rays...
2007-11-04 05:21:52 · 15 answers · asked by Rode|ette ۩ 6 in Travel ➔ Asia Pacific ➔ Philippines
yeah.
deep-rooted friendship
like those of siblings
forgive and forget without even mentioning about it
iba ang may pinag samahan pag nawalay hinahanap iba ang may pinagsamahan "TUBA NA"
itaas mo!!!!
kahlan pls. translate
nose bleeds already
que horror!
2007-11-04 16:29:54 · answer #1 · answered by Angel-ene 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at one point or another, our loved ones or our friends will wittingly or unwittingly hurt us... the fact that you feel pain means that the person who caused you pain is special. otherwise, why would you care?
Friendship is based on forgiveness.
Today if your friend has done something wrong,
you have to forgive her immediately by thinking that you could have made the same mistake.
If she has been nasty to you today, you have to forgive her immediately.
Tomorrow you may be in the same position - you could be nasty to her.
So if you forgive her when she is nasty, then if a day comes when you are equally nasty, she will forgive you.
Good qualities eventually come forward. Good qualities will not remain dormant forever and forever.
- Sri Chinmoy
remember though to forgive right and wisely. if it is not a healthy friendship anymore and it is a vicious cycle of getting hurt & forgiving, learn to let go of the person because a true friend will not hurt you over and over again...
2007-11-09 21:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by kahlan nynaeve® 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is either martyrdom or sainthood.
In my opinion, friendship is strengthened when you are able to "talk about it" and ventilate. Otherwise, if you are constantly hurt without the other knowing you are hurting, the dam will break loose one day.
On the other hand, you learn about each other better when you ventilate. And laugh at the folly of being hurt over "small things" one day.
2007-11-05 02:25:16 · answer #3 · answered by boyplakwatsa.com 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Rodelette. Friendship should be a two-way street. If you're hurt, you should communicate it to your friends and vice versa. Just like in any relationships, we should bear the ups and downs of it. This will help the union grow stronger over time.
Cheers and thank you again.
2007-11-07 04:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely YES! That's the beauty of real friendship.
Going through all the emotions of getting hurt and being in pain but after a while, you just forgive and forget like nothing happened. It can't really be explained in details, it just is.
2007-11-04 13:41:08 · answer #5 · answered by allsmiles 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I guess so. True friendship does not hate nor does it remember the wrong you have been done. True friendship easily forgets and forgives the hurtful past; it bears no grudges nor lies in wait to avenge or to seek revenge.
2007-11-05 06:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by annabelle p 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some times you need help, you need some one to talk to.
If you know some one that will, help.
Call, if they come back, you have a friend.
If not, well sun has not sprayed its rays, not sure about this?
But in your message
2007-11-04 15:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, thats friendship. Sometimes thats how you measure true friendship. You can't measure it unless you hurt him/her.
2007-11-05 00:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by BlackHat 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds something deeper than friendship to me.
2007-11-04 17:51:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
haahaaaay...i think that's alzheimer's!
i do not easily forgive friends who wronged me to begin with. that's why i have very few 'friends' left. who needs friends when i have my beauty to talk to myself about?
2007-11-04 15:10:42 · answer #10 · answered by Bungangera of Perya 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋