I'm in college and recently fell out with one of my coolest guy friends. He ended up breaking my heart, by dogging me out and treating me like **** after I was a very good friend to him. Yes we had intercourse but always managed to keep it separate. I gave and shared everything I had with him, even getting him a job. He just started acting shitty towards me all if a sudden, like he didn't want to talk or be around me. Well we have 3 classes together and sit right next to each other despite me constantly moving he still sits next to me. It's hard for me, how do I make him think I could careless about him anymore, as this is what he did to me? I was a good as friend to him, not only did he treat me like ****, he started flirting and hanging around my friend whom I'm no longer friends with bc of this. I miss our friendship (him and I) and it hurts really bad. I'm sure he knows it
2007-11-04 05:20:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can do it sweetie. Just tell yourself you are gorgeous and deserve much better. He has no morals for pursuing a friend of yours. You need to meet other guys and have fun. Soon you'll be glad he's not in your life.
I see my ex-husband's cheating face every single morning cause I work with him...and I have no problem handling it.....most of the time...:)
2007-11-04 05:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to realize that he is immature and perhaps misses the things you did for him, or the sex, and once you finish school you won't hopefully see him again. You can try talking to one of the counselors and see about changing classes so that you are in different classes. If he sits next to you, get up and move again and if he still follows you tell him you are going to file a restraining order with the police to keep him away from you. You may need to build up your confidence and self esteem or you wouldn't miss the friendship of a jerk like this. Good luck with the school!!
2007-11-04 05:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated my boss, I know, I know shame on me, but he broke it off after 3 years and I was heartbroke. We still work together and it really sucks sometimes, but I just hold my head up high and refuse to let him see that it gets to me. I don't cry in front of him and I always try to seem happy and content. Some days it is really hard to do but it makes the situation easier. I refuse to let him know anything about my personal life too. I don't agree with you disappearing, he will think that he won and got to you, and that will really stroke his ego. Hold your head up high and don't let him see how upset he made you.
2007-11-04 05:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by Bobbi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you asked for it.... you gave him everything. slut. he is just trying to make you feel bad. ignore him! he's a jerk. it's his loss that he lost a good friend. just watch, he's going to be all nice to you again. thats why he is still sitting next to you becuase he wants sex and hookups. sience he is flirting with you friend she's not really a friend and that jerk isn't a friend either. he was just using you... derrr... don't give in! forget him. it's just college it will pass...
good luck.
2007-11-04 05:52:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldnt matter to me because i would hold my head up and keep on going let know one stop you from being who you are. Go to your classes and pay him know mine at all still remain the person you are be polite if he speaks you speak if not speak to him anyways. He wasent worth your time be happy.
best of luck
2007-11-04 05:27:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it obvious to you ....when you walk into the room ....your face is all I see... And my heart races so fast ...i never knew a rush to feel like that .... everytime your tochin me .... the way you make me feel is the way it always lingers.....if being lost means never knowing how it means being without you.......you found me when I wasn't there you found me ....if its a dream.... dont wake me up I' Il scream if this is not love ...if being lost means that im never gonna feel without you.... I don't want to be lost without you... If being lost means that Im never gonna be without you..... I wanna stay lost . forever, with you........don't tell me where were goin.... I dont wanna know.... I like the mystery.....I can't believe we come so far from where we started from..... This feeling is everywhere I am... If bein lost means that im gonna stay without you ...Iwanna .stay lost forever....... I always wanna stay .... if bein lost means that Im never gonna be without you .....you have the power to a test and know all my fears ....... So I'll stay lost forever.........................
2007-11-04 05:53:42 · answer #6 · answered by quen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes its hard .. but i know you can get rid of him just ask a guy in your school to talk to him and tell him to stay away..
2007-11-04 05:54:26 · answer #7 · answered by rpetch007 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be hard but I just would have to forget him and go on with my life.
2007-11-04 05:43:00 · answer #8 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what you do . DISAPPEAR ! that is what i did after my
ex bf and i broke up. i stopped going to his church and i am
going to another , i don't go where he goes. sounds good to
me. i moved on with my life. you do the same.
2007-11-04 05:33:20 · answer #9 · answered by rodriguez m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd pretend the guy didn't exist.
2007-11-04 05:23:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋