so last night my boyfriend was over and we started making out and then one thing lead to another and i felt his hand about to go up my skirt...i stopped him and told him that i had my period and i didnt want him to finger me (at least not today) i mean we have done it before but i didnt want him to...he said he didnt care about my period and went on doing it anyway...then after he was done he complained about how gross i was....and i have no idea what to say or do
2007-11-04 04:28:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Dump him.
You always have a right to say no, for any reason or no reason. If he doesn't respect that, you probably have much worse problems in the future.
Second, you told him you didn't want sex play because you were having your period, he coerces you, then complains that you're having your period? I blinked and missed the moment when all that made sense.
If a guy knows his lady is having her period and wants sex anyway, he should just get used to the fact that girls have periods. It's normal, healthy, and water-washable. If he doesn't like that, he should be taking other boys to bed.
2007-11-04 07:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by Tom V 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't think u should go to the police....u two have done it before...men do tend to get a little excited when they are hot in passion...however u need to remind him that what he did is wrong...the only way to do this is to tell him when he busy doing something else....u'll see...as a man i can tell u if i was told ..."last night ..u did something i did not like" I might tease u ,but inside i'm gonna feel really embarrassed...thts how most guys are....however after tht serious talk if he still wants HIS way then yeah..may be u should look some place else...but give him the benifit of doubt,just once...not twice!
2007-11-04 06:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said no, and he didn't stop. Sorry, but this kind of abusive behavior just gets worse over time. It isn't as much about sex as it is about control. I would NOT give him a second chance. I also probably would not go to the police. But the relationship ended when he forced you. He has no respect for you, and you should not waste any more time with him. There are plenty of good guys out there who will not behave the way this loser did. Don't "talk to him" -- just tell him you bluntly that you are finished with him because he forced you and then don't stick around to listen to his whining. Then just get on with your life. Abusers always promise it won't happen again, but the only way to make it not happen again is to rid yourself of this piece of excrement ASAP.
2007-11-04 07:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by Maple 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly speaking i think he dosn't care for u he is selfish he thinks for himself and & most important things in love is mutual understanding and respect and sorry to say he lacks in them and he should be a little caring b coz every girl women is having period and no body prays for them they r natural and bodily natural way of functioning in females so they r not gross bcoz every women feels disturbed or a little tensed while having them so if he can't understand that he is a big stupid i m also having girlfriend i listen to him and care for her feelings,tell him to grow up and he should be a little caring towards u... all i can say have a nice time..good luck.
2007-11-04 06:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, go to the police. If you said NO and you did and he continued, that is RAPE! Report him to the police IMMEDIATELY and dump his sorry *** and disgrace of a human being at the same time!
2007-11-04 06:14:03 · answer #5 · answered by Dan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a retard and if he does not stop when you say stop then you should maybe think about finding someone that will respect you.
2007-11-04 04:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by trackman 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
kick him in the balls... then tell him to go get some Monkberry Moon Delight to ease the pain from the kick, and when you break up with him... over
2007-11-04 05:41:24 · answer #7 · answered by King Diamond 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he dont respect u enough to listen to u say no then drop him and find some 1 that does
2007-11-04 04:51:15 · answer #8 · answered by seth 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree to jesse's answer. Though this is men's health section.
2007-11-04 04:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Technically it's rape and you should talk to the police, but I doubt that you'll want to do that.
Tell him HE was the one that insisted even after you warned him, and that if he didn't like it, to kiss your butt!!! He sounds like a jerk!
2007-11-04 04:34:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 10⤊ 1⤋