Ever find a little messy make u feel comfortable and relax?

Question

maybe has to do with I was and still am a perfectionist then I was college with a roomate who is nice and also neat neat neat, so her room is always neat, clean and spotless, so I want to be like that for longest time and relized now, after ten or more so year, I am not that like.

I don't mean very messy but do you find that just little bit messy actually make you feel more relax and cozy, so we are not neat freak over it. (no offense to neat person, it just I wasn't born like that)

thanks for share

Answer 1

Its not so much the mess. Its the freedom to make the mess and not having some one call you on it! That where you can get comfortable.