Today is my birthday and my boyfriend of 12 years has not said anything to me. I think he forgot! should I say something or should I wait till tomorrow and make him really guilty?
2007-11-04 04:18:30 · 5 answers · asked by mustng44 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would have said cut him some slack because a lot of men are like that, they just don't remember that kinda ****, until I saw 12 yrs !! The poster before me is right wait the whole day cause u never know and then tommorow you can bring it up, you don't have to go out of your way to make him feel like a piece of **** but you can let him know how much it hurts then let him make it up to you, and let it go, sometimes people really do sincerely forget, now if the same thing happens next year, you'll know that your feelings aren't priority and you can go from there. Good luck and happy bday !!
2007-11-04 04:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by Orianna C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you do either, people forget just say something like lets go out to dinner to celebrate my birthday tonight. You don't need to rub it in. He will feel bad enough or maybe he has a surprise planned and you are jumping the gun?
2007-11-04 12:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by teresa m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the benefit of the doubt, but what is his past record? Does he usually remember? Most men don't remember dates like birthdays, anniversaries, etc. Don't play games if he hasn't said anything by tonight, just tell him and he might take you out to dinner.
2007-11-04 12:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just wait till tomarrow cuz if he has planned something special for you tonight then you will ruin the supprise and if he doesnt then you can make him feel totally guilty.
2007-11-04 12:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't jump to conclusions just yet. he might just be tryin to surprise you later on. if he doesn't say anything all day, then you can get him tomorrow
2007-11-04 12:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by Yeah... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋