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Well I have this friend and Id really like to be better friends with her. But, she has this bestfriend who she calls her sister and they barely let eachother out of thier sight.... i wanna be friends with this girl but the other one keeps getting in the way.
Well its really hard. Its such a big group of people who revolve around these two. And, I always get shunted aside or not included. Also, I do talk to her online. Shes a totally different person in school than online or by herself. We're in eighth grade. (isnt everyone twofaced at this age?)

2007-11-04 04:08:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

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You have to make friends with the best friend thats the only way I can see around it.

And yes everyone is bitchy at that age!

2007-11-04 04:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by We can live like Jack & Sally 3 · 0 0

xbox 360, Way better exclusives such as halo & gears of war. PS3 has free online but it can in no possible way compare to xbox live, xbox live is absolutely awsome and it's only about $50 a year which is fairly cheap. Although xbox does have it's downside with it being a bit faulty when it comes to technicality , however that's what warranties are for. So overall I believe xbox 360 is so much better. Also, I would however like to add, I do believe PS3 is much better if you are a graphic obsessor, both systems have good graphics but PS3 is a bitt better. Lastly, I need to add, price of the 360 is cheaper and PS3 is more expensive. However, both systems have ups and downs, but I chose 360.

2016-05-27 07:47:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

Try a different approach, talk to her on line, and don't try to say anything at school. Just be yourself, and don't be a groupie. It sounds like the other girl has some self esteem problems, and doesn't know its okay to friends with more than one person, to talk and do things with. If you think you are two faced, then change, don't follow the others, you be the one that the others want to know and talk to.

2007-11-04 04:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0 0

Hun Listen, why are you so worried and trying so hard to be her friend? You shouldn't have to work hard to have a friendship it should just happen. Maybe you should pay attention to those around you who have always been there for you! I know middle school is a rough time but you need to stay true to yourself. Instead of thinking "I'd like to be better friends with her," you should be thinking, "Wow, I'm a fun person to be around, SHE should want to be better friends with me!" And if she doesnt' give you the time of day, find a different friend, trust me!

2007-11-04 04:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by Kovi 2 · 0 0

ok-im in ninth grade, so people are still in this stage here.
of couse she is diffrent in real life than online-online you can be anything you are or want, but in person all people want ot do is impress. if you really like her, than talk to her gradually outside of the computer, and then that should help build the relationship between you two. things should then start to get better, and at the least you should be better friends.

2007-11-04 04:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by becca_mcr 2 · 0 0

I don't know what to say. I have had this happen to me before. I realized that these people WERE NOT MY FRIENDS AT ALL. Yes, everyone but my bff is bassically two faced in my 8th grade too.

2007-11-04 04:13:48 · answer #6 · answered by dumbledoresarmy35 3 · 0 0

Well, at this age, people are very two-faced. It's just the way kids are. I guess its a way of life. Teenagers are confusing, and it stinks. But I guess you have to just deal with it. I hope all goes well.

2007-11-04 04:13:20 · answer #7 · answered by srk93 3 · 0 0

Try talking about a subject that they are both interested in. And if that does'nt help, then maybe they are just to preoccupied with themselves to pay much attention to anyone else.

2007-11-04 04:15:04 · answer #8 · answered by student 2 · 0 0

Get a man for her friend...double date. Get the girlfriend hooked on someone then you will have her all to yourself. Once a girl/boy gets a boyfriend/girlfriend, they forget about their friends.

2007-11-04 04:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0 0

Some girls get jealous when someone is trying to get closes to there best friend

2007-11-04 04:14:03 · answer #10 · answered by Red M 3 · 0 0

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