And had sex with over 100 men, or women and the addiction was 15 years ago, and no longer an issue today, would you feel the need to know about it now, or would you feel better not knowing about it at all ..?? Should the person tell you about it, even if they have NO health problems as a result..??
2007-11-04 03:00:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
well a successful relationships comes from an open closet if u know what i mean
2007-11-04 03:03:14 · answer #1 · answered by MJ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's bragging and probably making himself out to be a superman. Think of it this way...Being a woman what would a person think of you if you said you had over 100 partners?
They wouldn't put you up for Sainthood, right. A real gentleman would not put you in such an awkward postition
I call this a huge RED FLAG Huge
2007-11-04 03:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by JOHN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the person can prove to you that they have NO health problems & has over come this problem, then leave the past in the past. Somethings are better not to know.
2007-11-04 03:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by smiley 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, absolutely they should tell you about it! And sometimes health problems related to sex addiction don't show up for a long time. If that person loves you and you love that person, both of you should get thorough physical exams. I know a woman who has had genital herpes for more than 25 years and doesn't tell her partners she has it because she hasn't had symptoms for a very long time.
2007-11-04 03:06:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can put a lot of people off knowing that. Me personally, i wouldn't touch them with a ten foot pole, so in some cases it may be better not knowing, but you want to make sure they are not carrying any stds.
2007-11-04 03:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by Honey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a relationship with a secret like that is doomed.. with my luck me and my guy would run into all one hundred guys at the mall.. first time out. stuff like that just comes out. it is better to be up front. if it was a few lovers.. prior to marriage.. or comittment i would say.. as long as you are healthy.. fine. but an addiction... can re-occur... (Hopefully it does not) i would have to know that my mate would still love me for myself at this present time,.
2007-11-04 03:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by foosieboy1953 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be nice to know. Better to know before hand than find out later on you're own. That could cause problems...
2007-11-04 03:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel that I would need to know becaus thats who I am. I like to know who I am dating...even know it was 15yrs ago! What if they killed someone but it was 15yrs ago...would I need to know, yes!
To keep this short and sweet I like to know my lovers history, because it tells who they are and where they came from and what they've been through...
2007-11-04 03:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd like him to tell me and I'd like to know how he got over it and why he wanted to get over it in the first place.
2007-11-04 03:03:56 · answer #9 · answered by Smelly Cat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would feel better knowing about it so i could have that person tested for std's
2007-11-04 03:03:38 · answer #10 · answered by Jess 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋