* Nothing to live for
* No life
*Fat
*Ugly
*Unhappy with ones personalty
*No money
*No licence
*School sucks
*No friends
*Unpayed traffic & praking tickets
*Suicidal thoughts since one can remember
*Emontial breakdown.
*Parents suck
My firend has that whole list and I'm afraid for her safety. Is she going to be ok? And if yes is the answer to suicide, what can I do to help?
2007-11-04 02:40:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Your job is to sing her a song and tell her jokes.
2007-11-04 02:56:23 · answer #1 · answered by godbar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not a suicide expert or anything but i think that if somebody's life sucks as much as that then they need help, but on the other hand u say they have no friends but you call them a friend so it can't honestly be that bad. Just in case though, it might be smart to tell a counselor or something, and you might want to encourage your friend by saying that you're their friend, they're not fat, ugly ect., do stuff with them that they enjoy (go to a movie, take a walk ect.) and a thing that I would do, just because I am Christian, would be to pray for them-it helps!
2007-11-04 10:52:29 · answer #2 · answered by m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on your friends attitude on life....if she feels like these issues are controling her then yes, its very possible she may try to kiil herself one day....however, i have felt all those things at one point in my life also, and i am still around to tell it! If you want to help your pal out, the only thing you can do, is tell someone you know can do More to help her, be available to her if she needs to talk or get away for a while, but its really an issue you cant deal with on your own, and if you try, you will find that you have put a VERY large amount of pressure on your shoulders, and could get you depressed and unhappy. Tell your friend, to hang in there, even though it sucks now, if she improves her life in the areas she can control, she will be better prepared to improve the parts she cant control once she is in charge of her own life. The teen to young adult years are always the hardest. please help her understand that. And it will get better for her if she just presses through her feelings of worthlessness and her anger at her parents...Parents can be horrible, trust me i know. But they are a nessasary evil. While young men and woman are going through puberty years....its proven that they lose some function in the frontal lobe area, which is in charge of emotion, this is why teens have so many issues that seem silly to adults...hormones....during these years, you can be more prone to unhappy feelings and sorrow, or the other extreme, overly happy party animals, and the ever so popular, i love him and i wanna have his baby even though we are only 15....it happens all the time. some worse than others....i have a friend who killed himself around 18 or so....he did it because his mother expected him to be well behaved and not run around all the time, and she asked him to mow the grass...there were other smaller issues, but thats the jist of it. He woke me up. After that i realized that, as long as i am not being beated (wich i have been before), raped, or tortured, i was gonna be happy, tell your friend to look up and remember she has a future that is her own, and she will make it through her hard times, and she will be able to embrace her future....as for the no friends, its hard to maintain a friendship with people when you feel like life sucks, i think your friend will be ok....just tell her, no emotional pain is worth taking your life, emotions can be controlled if you put your energy into it....what she needs is a fresh perspective....give her a hug for me.
2007-11-04 11:15:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unpaid traffic tickets huh
man that would make me do it
but he truth is yes any, part or all of it can make a person
even those with seemingly good lives commit suicide
there was a case where a couple committed suicide
no one saw it coming
because they lived the perfect life
both had high earning good jobs
both drove new cars
they were young and married and lived in a new house
then they shot themselves
their reasoning was they believed it could not get any better and they would in fact see their quality of life deteriorate
but your friend ( and possibly you since friends tend to pick likewise friends ) is a very negative person
personally i would not hang with such a person
i rather be with positive and upbeat people
not someone who blames their lot on life on others
rather than her own self where it squarely belongs
2007-11-04 10:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently your friend has one friend, or you wouldn't be worried for her safety. It definitely sounds like she's suicidal. Sometimes life can get us down, but if we hold on for a little while, things do get better. Tell your friend this. Then help her set some goals and work with her to get some things done. Also, try to get her to ask for help. If she can't afford professional help, take her to a clergyman or a school councilor. It might be a good idea to talk to her parents too. (unless they really do suck, and talking to them would be useless) Your friend needs you, you have to be there for her.
2007-11-04 10:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by Shubunkin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that you're worried, and let her close friends and family know (even if they suck) that you're worried and try to get her professional help. There are people who get paid a lot of money to counsel other though things like this because they're experts.
People's emotions go up and down all day long, and all it takes is one dip too low and she won't be able to take it back.
The worst thing you can do is to say nothing.
2007-11-04 11:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by Byah! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend to rent one of the older versions of romio and juliet , 70s I believe it was , don't tell her why , but just between you and me , no matter how long you live , your true love is waiting for you and has been sence the day you were born ,,, destiny ,,,, but we have to serve our time here first , and once you except that , life all of a sudden gets better and easier , but you can't let any { hope be gone - get real } person shake your belief that your future is in the future and you will have the good things when you get there...
2007-11-04 11:04:47 · answer #7 · answered by darkcloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly? the only part that stuck out to me was the suicidal thoughts part. ive seen plenty of unhappy fat ugly people that would never commit suicide. Try to hang out with her as much as possible so she dosent have a lot of time to grow on thoes thoughts. start a hobby together. something she may grow on. also try and get her to therapy
2007-11-04 10:50:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES
2007-11-04 11:41:14 · answer #9 · answered by seaching4rastartt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋