he helped her out of a bad situation. Now she thinks it is something more and tries to flirt with him..should I be jealous? I hate her. I just want to go and punch her..what should I do?
2007-11-04 02:22:49 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
tell him how you feel about her and maybe he'll draw a line... violence is not an answer to anything...
2007-11-04 02:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by lilsw33tazn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have been married to this man for 15 years do i get that right, he meets ex at bar one night and helps her out of her situation that was bad. Now she thinks he wants her well first of all he has got to let her know that he is not interested in her.
You should not go any where and punch her in the face okay
he chose you thats why he married you and comes home to you. Stop making a mountain out of nothing.
best of luck
2007-11-04 02:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to you husband and let him know how you feel. If she is flirting, he needs to tell her to knock it off. If you tell her, then she will think that maybe he does still care for her and that he doesn't really mind the flirting. Don't punch - that can get you in trouble. My husband punched my ex and spent 2 years on probation - even though it was only one punch. Physical violence can get really messy if the other one files charges.
2007-11-04 02:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by Love being a Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as HE doesn't think its anything more, then there shouldn't be a problem. He needs to let her know that he is happily married though. You also may want to learn how to handle situations better though...while there is no doubt this may upset you a bit, you sound extremely angry and beyond the ability to handle emotions properly.
2007-11-04 02:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell HIM (not her) that it was kind of him to help her, but now it's time to resume things as they've happened for the past 15 years prior to that - without her around. If he doesn't say something to her as well, then he's being a jerk.
2007-11-04 02:57:51 · answer #5 · answered by Mike T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a nice man your husband must be. Don't waste your time hating someone from the past. I'm sure you had boyfriends but that's also in the past. Just remember this: you don't have to trust her; just trust your husband. And you have nothing to be jealous of. You have him; she doesn't.
2007-11-04 02:30:04 · answer #6 · answered by missingora 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its not her you should have the problem with...your not married to her, your married to him. He is the one that is committed to YOU. Talk to your husband and let him know your uncomfortable with this. If he continues to talk with her then yes, there is a problem.
Good luck
2007-11-04 02:27:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Every woman from my own cousin to my friends will throw themselves at my partner given a chance is it ok?NO whose committed to me?My PARTNER as long he doesnt reciprocate such advances its fine
2007-11-04 03:36:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should punch him! Ok, maybe not jail is not a fun place to be. First confront him then confront her and tell her to leave you and your husband alone. If he doesn't want to leave her alone leave him!
2007-11-04 02:29:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its not her fault its your man's fault for putting himself into the kind of a predictament. Don't get mad at her for acting on his kindness. get mad at him for letting himsef be put into this type of a situation. Its not jealousy, it's rage.
2007-11-04 02:41:29 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋