If I'm in love with a engage man ,and he shows me he loves me a lot beside his wife I want to know if he really in love with me? How can I know
2007-11-04 00:17:36 · 21 answers · asked by sweet like honney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The question is in what way does he show he loves you?
Ask him how he feels about you, refuse to have sex with him and see how he treats you.
The fact he is engaged to this woman and has kept his engagement while also seeing you suggests he wants to reamain with his wife.
Anyway, do you really want to be with this man, the kind of man who is willing to cheat while being engaged to someone else. Do you really want this person as your future husband. How would you feel of you were his future wife and found out he had a mistress? I wouldnt want to be with this kind of person.
2007-11-04 00:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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If I'm in love with a engage man ,and he shows me he loves me a lot beside his wife I want to know if he really in love with me? How can I know
2015-08-23 04:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by Kristal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and lust are two different things. Maybe a guy could love a mistress. It's not loving to hurt a spouse by having an affair.
2016-03-17 05:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman we have no right to be in love to a married man. We are consider as a destroyer to their lives. To think of it a man heart same as our. If a woman make all the ways how the man to be in love with her why should not happen the man also fall in love with his Mistress.
2007-11-04 00:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by janila 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not really in-love with either of you two, he is much more in-love with himself. If he can decieve his wife now with you, what makes you think he would not do the same thing with you in the future. How could you ever love a man with no integrity.
And may I also add, both of you are in an adulterous relationship and these have consequences. If you, my dear, value your soul...you better think quick.
2007-11-04 01:07:00 · answer #5 · answered by Reese 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are you messing with a man that can't be true to you? I would send the man on his way and find a man that can be true to only you. I would never want to be with a man that doesn't love me enough to respect me and want to be with only me. If he's engaged to another women, the odds of him wanting to be with you and only you, is very slim. He may have told you that he told his fiance, but honestly its highly unlikely. I would stop taking his calls, and move on.
2007-11-04 00:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by Sabrina K 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is only in love with the idea of haveing 2 diffrent women.and even if he does choose you. He will find someone else on the side. Is that the life you want. I say find a diffrent man for your life and one that can commit to you only
2007-11-07 23:14:35 · answer #7 · answered by Larry M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't jeprodize it. If he SHOWS he really loves you and doesn't show anything towards your friend then he really loves you. even if he does flirt a little with your friend. It may just be for a joke or something. What you honestly need to do (if you are so worried about it) is sit down and have an honest CONFIDENTIAL serious talk with him. Tell him how you feel and what your concers are and especially why you are bringing it up.
2007-11-04 00:23:06 · answer #8 · answered by deathchild_001 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why would you want to waste your time with someone that is willing to keep you his dirty little secret? You would know he loves you if he left his wife and wanted to be with you full time. Otherwise you are just the piece on the side.
Get some self esteem, leave him and find someone single.
2007-11-04 00:24:15 · answer #9 · answered by banshee1068 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say he is engaged; then you say he has a wife. Doesn't matter. You can know he doesn't love you because he is with another woman. Never doubt it.
2007-11-04 00:22:37 · answer #10 · answered by claudiacake 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋