how did it go ??
2007-11-03 23:49:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
coz im thinking about accepting an offer from a guy but i dont wanna find myself getting attached coz he is already in a relationship
2007-11-03 23:53:26 · update #1
Yes, and it was magical.
If you are adults about it, it will be great!
Sex is a perfectly normal thing in life, and sometimes people intertwine it with love and everything else.
If you can separate sex from all else, you will have an amazing sex life with your friend . . . plus, you won't have all of the other guilt and responsibilities that come with a full fledged relationship.
Just be sure BEFORE you get into anything that you can handle the outcome: he could find someone else, you could find someone else. Even if one (or both of you) find someone else, would you stop with the nooners? Or would you be ok being the one on the side? It is not for the weak of heart, so be careful.
If you go into it vajay-jay first, you'll be ok.
2007-11-03 23:55:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are you friends with a creepy jerk? He wants to cheat on his gf w/ you and you need to consider this?!?
I HAVE done the "friends w/ benefits" thing a few times in the past (or F#@%buddies--as someone I know dubbed a similar arrangement) and it usually results in someone's pesky emotions getting in the way. It tends to strain or wreck friendships if the arrangement goes on to long or is used too regularly, so anymore I would hesitate to enter into such an arrangement w/ a truly dear friend. On occasion it has resulted in some mind boggling events (the "earth moved" varriey, lol). Good luck ! ;-))
2007-11-04 00:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by Witchyluck 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many times. But honey, if he is already in a relationship he's not the kind of guy you want to be doin' it with anyway. Get a good friend, who respects women (by not cheating on his girlfriend, for goodness sake!), and is very close to you. Friends with benefits happen because you both share a close caring friendship and want to express that to eachother... not just a random romp in the sack. That's a "booty call".. lol!
2007-11-03 23:56:10 · answer #3 · answered by Tammy Z 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There was a guy who wanted to be but that didn't seem right to me. So I turned him down. And with your friend being in a relationship, wouldn't that kind of make you like being the other woman? And I'm sure you don't want to be that. And he sounds like a dog just for asking you, he does have a girlfriend. I hope he isn't planning on marrying her, cause he'll continue on. Or even be stepping outside the boundaries on you to. Not to mention the diseases he could be passing.
2007-11-04 00:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat1640 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, for a quite a while in fact. We both had fun, We got together when we wanted, no strings attached. Eventually she moved to another state, and I haven't seen her in five years, and neither of us was heartbroken, etc...
2007-11-03 23:53:50 · answer #5 · answered by Bill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing the concept of "friends with benefits" will cause is ex-friends. Jealousy, resentment and the feeling of wanting more will always rear its head at some point.
2007-11-03 23:53:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
once
we ended up in a relationship the end, albeit briefly.
it could have gone worse i suppose, we're still kind of friends (without benefits)
2007-11-04 00:01:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had two. ONe for MOnday, Wed., Fri., and one for Tue, Th, Sat. Sunday I rested. It was the best time of my life.
2007-11-03 23:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but the benefits were not with me LOL
2007-11-03 23:52:14 · answer #9 · answered by Linda Fallsrock 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yup. we were friendly for 25 years until I moved out of state
2007-11-03 23:51:57 · answer #10 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋