Just another love tragedy?

Question

ok i dated this girl for 2 years and we were each others first love then one day she had to move away so we spent her last days together and b4 she left she said i love you and kissed me then she burst into tears and left the next day she moved on the other side of the world and i didnt see her for 2 years but i never stopped thinkin about her, i hav dated many girls and i dont hav a problem with gettin women (not to sound cocky) but no one seemed as perfect as her, i was completely head over heels for her, so one day out of the blue i find out she is coming bak into town for a week to stay with one of her close girlfriends that was also one of my friends so needless to say i was very excited because i waited for so long to get the chance to see her i mean we talked online a few times but it wasnt the same, so she finally came bak and i picked her up from the airport and we had to most amazing week, parking under the stars,kissin in the rain, catchin up where we left off, we were stuck on each other all week so one day we were layin in the grass lookin up at the stars and she looks over and says i love you with all my heart and i have missed u so much, then i expressed my feelings to her and she kissed me and said i wanna move back one day and get married so we can be together for the rest of our lives, so i told her ok i really care about u and ill wait for u no matter how long it takes or what i hav to do to b with u jus as long as we r together, then the week was up and we parted on very good terms, so she left and we talked on the phone and online for two weeks then on day out of the blue she says i love u but only as a friend and after i left i only thought about one person and that person wasnt you im sorry, i was crushed because i asked her if there was any1 else and she looked me in the eye and said she will never care about anybody more than she does me, she said i will understand if u dont wanna ever talk to me again and by this time i am furious but instead of yelling i jus said im not gonna yell at u because it wont change anything instead i jus want you to kno u did me wrong and i really loved u but i guess that jus wasnt enough im sorry goodbye and i havent talked to her in months and she even ignores her best friend because even she knows i didnt deserve that but neither of us hav talked to her since but i cant help but to miss her sometimes and i kno im not supposed to but i cant help it and i jus wish the feelings would go away its been months and i still am troubled by this, thanx for listening any advice for me? what should i do? y do u think she did that to me? do you think i should ever try to b with her again? am i a complete idiot for still missing her after what she has done? i jus dont kno what to do anymore

Answer 1

it is always hard to get over losing your first love. I take you are young and will probably have a lot more relationships before you find the right girl. You might find this hard to believe but time does heal all wounds. Go out have some fun with your mates and try to put this girl behind you. You deserve better than this. If she wants you back let her do the hard work but honestly I would think twice before letting her in to your life again. She is not worthy of your love. Good Luck and don't give up on finding someone worthy of you and your love.

Answer 2

It's not wrong that you still miss her. You loved her. That's not something that can just go away or turn off like a light switch.

She did you wrong and that sucks. I'm sorry to hear that. It's so cliche', but really, it's all about time. It just sort of fades after a while.

Who knows why she did what she did. I'm sure she's not an evil person, but do you really want to be back with anybody that will look you right in the eye and lie to you?

Just give it time and it WILL heal. The hard part will be trusting somebody else that tells you the same thing she told you. But you have to. Not everybody is like her, so just be careful not to compare everybody else to her because that would not be fair to the next woman.

Answer 3

I don't think you will be with her again, unless something goes wrong with the relationship she is in now. I would not hold my life back, it is time to move one and find someone else that you could live your life with. When you love someone, and the relationship ends, doesn't mean that you stop loving that person. It has been said that a divorce, or break up from a serious relationship, causes you to go through the same griefing process, the same as when some one dies that you loved. I believe this is true. If you truly love someone, love doesn't go away in a split second, but continues forever. You will always love her, but not like the things she does.

Answer 4

There could be two possible reasons for actions. 1. She feels like she's wrong for making you wait so long and so she felt guilty and broke it off. She might have thought that she was doing you a favor. 2. I hate to say it like this but she might have just got caught up in the moment. You know, being home, back with her first love and just missing the the comfort and security all those surroundings used to bring her. If it's meant to be it will work out. If not, there is something even greater out there.

Answer 5

Wow thats pretty sad... But thats what real love is.. Only advice is .. try living your life the best way you can.. Time will heal the heartache and dont close yourself off to other possabilties.. There maybe another girl out there for you, who you'll love completeley .. and this girl will only be a distant memory!

Good Luck

Answer 6

R.I.P. Ron this is totally unlucky; i like The Stooges! EDIT: interior the Houston Chronicle at present, there grew to become into a piece of writing in memoriam of Ron....it stated that Iggy Pop issued a assertion announcing that Ron grew to become into his 'maximum suitable chum'. undesirable Iggy! :(