what was the hardest goodbye you had to say?

Question

for me it was when my grandfather died and i was out of the country
so i had to say good bye without seeing him(the last time i've seen him was a year before he died)

jyx210
i'm sorry abouy ur aunt

moving on is a simple thing but what it leaves behind is hard!!!

Answer 1

I knew that my dad was dying and I made it a point to tell him that I loved him and good bye and come over and visit every day. The last day that he was alive I was over there in the morning while my step mom ran some errands. He was having a really hard time getting comfortable so when he was asleep when I left I just let him be rather than go in and say it. He died that night before I could get to his house.

Answer 2

Hmm... the hardest goodbye was when the person I loved told me goodbye, I was madly in love with her. But she said that "she fell out of love with me." So when she broke up with me, I was heartbroken. We were inseparable, she told me that she could see us living together forever, that she had never loved anyone as much as me, that she would never leave me.
When she broke up with me.. it was like a slap in the face, I didn't know how to take it. There were so many emotions going on that I didn't know what to do with. Sadness, depression, anger, hate, remorse, self-hate, awkwardness, angst. I got involved into things, which didn't lead anywhere.

So that was the hardest goodbye for me.

Answer 3

An almost similar incident. My cousin who had cancer, was in a hospital in New Orleans -- out-of-state. I spoke with her over the phone two days before she died. She asked me to assure her that we were going to do so many things together. I promised her we would. In my heart, a part of me knew this was a good-bye. So I told her that I loved her. Two days later, I learned that she had passed away. It was heart breaking. Still is.

Answer 4

I was in a relationship with this girl for 10 months. One weekend out of the blue, she decided to move 3 states away because her home life was unsatisfying. We spent her last day here together, reminiscing on old times, cuddling, and just reassuring each other that things would work out and we'd be together again. It was time for her to leave, I remember walking her to her car, we hugged for a minute, kissed, said I love you, and she got into her car. I remember looking at her, she was sitting there, window down, her bright beautiful eyes just staring at me, and she began to cry. I did my best not to cry back. I kissed and said, "I love you, we'll be together again before you know it". She drove off, I began to cry, I watched her car drive to the end of the street, I still remember just staring at her brake lights as she drove away, farther and farther until they were out of sight. I broke down into a million pieces. I knew that was the last time I'd ever see her. And it was. I still think of that goodbye every single day of my life. That was over a year ago now. I had the love of my life and I just let her slip away... I'll never forgive myself.

Answer 5

I said goodbye to my aunt before leaving the country and we both knew that we would never see each other again because she was dying. She died several months later.

Answer 6

The hardest goodbye was when I had to leave my friends in Chicago when I moved to New York. I had to say goodbye to my best friend Pablo, and my first girlfriend Vanessa. I miss them everyday.

Answer 7

When I graduated and said goodbye to my classmates. Sorry about your grandfather. I'm sure he's in a better place.

Answer 8

When I went to Korea and had to say goodbye to my husband at the airport, knowing I may not see him for a year. We didn't care who saw, we cried our eyes out and it felt like my heart was being ripped out of me.

Answer 9

The last goodbye's the hardest one to say

Answer 10

hearty condolence to you, on your grandfather's demise.
the hardest GOOD BYE i ever had to say was when i lost my love [my first crush] there was no one who i could hug & cry in tears, but i cried for about a week without even thinking of eating.