ppl always tell me to quit my attitude ,and i would be so much prettier and get along with ppl more often........but honestly i don't see my self having an attitude.please HELP me!!!
2007-11-03 16:54:09 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
IM THE EXACT SAME WAY MOTHER ALWAYS SAID TO GET OUT OF YOUR ATTITUDE BUT I NEVER HAD ONE IT WAS JUST THE WAY I TALKED SOOO WHAT YOU DO IS DONT CARE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF YOU OR HOW YOU LOOK OR ACT OR ANYTHING ELSE....IF THEY DONT LIKE IT THEY WONT LOOK
2007-11-03 16:56:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Are you really "yourself", or are you just too young to think beyond what your words or comments mean to....or how they affect, others? Or what picture they are painting of you? Or is it that all you can think about is what YOU think, and what YOU feel about what is flying out of YOUR uneducated, inexperienced, trash mouth? Really, maybe if "ppl are always telling" you those things, it's a sign that you should reevaluate the image you've tried so hard to convey....it's obviously not "cool", it's more like a "fool".
2007-11-03 17:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by 123..WAIT! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ppl are very judgmental and you can't let ppl judgment bother you or make you feel bad about ur self. Ur who you are and you should NOT change your self for any one. Any one who can stand you or be with you for who you are is ur true friend and those who wants you to change are not your friends. Just ignore them and always be yourself. The worst they would call you is "ignorant" and yes sometimes its better to ignore lots of things in life for good:)
Iza
2007-11-03 17:01:25 · answer #3 · answered by Lala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if being yourself, means being a rude and mean to people, then yes, you should change. of course you wouldnt see yourself having an attitude-but what you see, and what everybody else see's are 2 completely different things. take a step back and look at things from other's points of view.
2007-11-03 16:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i sometimes get the feeling that ppl dont like me because they think im ugly but im just myself and get a lot of friends so just ignore them or treat them like that 2 its not something people you dont even know can fix its something you have to fix
2007-11-03 16:58:37 · answer #5 · answered by pink_panther1248 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ignore them. You're who you're and you don't have to change for anyone. People have a problem with me because I'm considered a weirdo but after awhile I stopped caring. If they don't like who I am then they don't have to be around me.
2007-11-03 17:02:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself if other people don't like it just tell them to get over it and move on with their lives.
2007-11-03 16:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've had the same thing said to me many times here and there in my life, usually from people who can't get their way or get what they want from me or those who want me to back them up on something i don't agree with.
2007-11-03 17:02:17 · answer #8 · answered by ferochira 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say the same about me tell them to shut the **** up its none of thier bizz what you act like and if they dont like it they can move thier stupid lil asses away from you, you have a right to be who you are and if it dont work hit them or inore it they aint your boss so i do not see why you should care what they think.
2007-11-03 16:58:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just keep being myself. If they have a stick up their *** about it, then that's their problem! I learned a long time ago that if you keep trying to change who you are to please others, neither they nor you will ever be truly satisfied.
2007-11-03 16:58:26 · answer #10 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋