2007-11-03 16:48:50 · 19 answers · asked by jennifer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would be furious!
2007-11-03 16:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by *Jace's Mommy* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. It would bother me that he felt the need to look at other naked women because I was at home (if he took me to the bar with him, that's another story, then we're just out having fun). But no because I have known people who worked in places like that and have worked in night clubs in a big city and know what a joke it really is. He could get better from his computer at home...that's a whole other issue.
2007-11-04 00:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by Morgan G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though I know my husband still would be coming home to me, yes I would be bothered if he went to a bar watching women.
Not for any insecurity...but for the fact that he would be seeing this woman as an "object"...and women are not objects...they are living, breathing beings with minds.
So yes, secure in my marriage or not, it would HIGHLY bother me.
2007-11-03 23:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i had a boyfriend or husband, I'd imagine we'd both be gay, so the real question here is, whats a gay guy doing in a go go bar?
2007-11-04 00:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends why he was going. If he was going just to see girls then I might be bummed about that. If he was going with a bunch of guys for a bachelor party or something then I would be ok with it. If he was going with a big group I wouldn't be bothered, if it was just him alone or with like one friend I'd be weirded out by that. I'd wonder why he wanted to go to that.
2007-11-03 23:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by JungleJane 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No woman likes her husband/boyfriend to go to go go bars, but if you trust them, you let them go. It's no big deal if you are secure in your relationship because you'll know that your boyfriend/husband isn't going anywhere.
2007-11-03 23:59:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, it would. If he was attending a bachelor party, that's a different story (and even then I think the whole stripper thing at bachelor and bachelorette parties is very disrespectful).
2007-11-03 23:57:01 · answer #7 · answered by Magaroni 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a lot of people will probably disagree but it is rather disrespectful for your hubby or bf to go to a go-go bar. Why would they want to look at another person naked? You should be enough to make them go wild.
2007-11-03 23:53:33 · answer #8 · answered by bella s 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes . . I personally consider it cheating unless the wife knows about it or even joins the husband!! But if he goes behind her back, then cheating it is!!!
2007-11-03 23:55:38 · answer #9 · answered by Kuri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, it's very disrespectful! Just my honest opinion! My husband & I mad an agreement on that, but I caught him there anyway & :I was furious for days!
2007-11-04 00:01:22 · answer #10 · answered by ♥bigmamma♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i learned about it on a bad day...probably yes...i'd probably scream and cry and punch some holes in the walls...
but if i learned of it while i'm in a really "good...calm...holier-than-thou" mood...i'd probably be very understanding and forgiving..i might even ask him if i could tag along sometime =P
2007-11-04 00:12:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋