ok so i told my crush that i liked him and he said he would txt me back l8tr cuz he was busy and its been like 31 hrs every since.....
do you think he is going to say no?
he may be busy though,
cuz he is always busy with sports and everything but ive been resisting the temptation to not txt him cuz then it would seem that im clingy
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im pretty good friends with him and i know that he doesnt have a girlfriend
when i told him that i liked him
he said that he thought that i kinda liked him but wasnt very sure
so is he going to say NO???? or should i give it more time?
sorry this is in the wrong section but nobody from the singles and relationship area respond!!!
2007-11-03 16:22:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
he didnt txt that he was busy
i just know that he had soccor games and stuff cause he was talking about it
2007-11-03 16:27:18 · update #1
Uh... sorry, but it seems like he's avoiding answering you. That probably means he doesn't like you that way, and is putting off responding because he doesn't know what to say. If he had time to text that he's busy, he would have texted "I like you too" if that were true...
2007-11-03 16:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE! Have one of your parents buy the book, "He's Just Not that Into You". I don't mean this as an insult to you in any way but as a 30+ something woman when I finally read the book, I learned that I don't have to stress about when guys don't call or text or anything for that matter.
If he isn't that into you and you are strong enough to accept that, give yourself the room to move on and live your life to the fullest rather than worrying why someone hasn't texted. It just isn't worth it and if you start the process of thinking there is something wrong with YOU now, it just won't end. Move on. Worry less.
The more you worry about this particular person the less likely you will be able to "play it cool" when he does ask you out. If he doesn't at this point, you still need to have confidence. Chances are, he isn't rejecting you. From the sounds of it, he is pretty busy. Set yourself free from the worry of what he thinks about you or why he hasn't called. It is very possible that most of it is out of his control.
Just be friendly and genuine without any expectations. It sounds like you are probably in Junior High or High School and I can promise that none of this will matter a few years from now.
The most important thing to do is to make good grades and focus on your ambitions.
I just want to say one more thing AGAIN; Please do not worry about dating and who likes you in school right now. Once you go to college, chances are you would rather spit on this person than date him. Don't get all caught up in the hype of having a boyfriend.
From my experience after going to a few high school reunions; the only people you really care to talk to are the ones that were never fake.
That is what life is about: Always be true to yourself. That boy might be there but chances are, he will not. But he will remember you for being strong and a friend regardless if you dated. Worry NOT!
2007-11-03 17:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by Kytari C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe not...he is not going 2 say no..he is also intrested n u..otherwise hell not spend tym and coming 2 ur house or texting u..u r just excited and cud not w8 anymore to know what wud happen next as if ur reading a love story...send him some quotes..at least its safe..maybe he is just busy...but some guys are too shy to do the next move..maybe he is thinking that he cant gve u the time of being together as boyfriends if hell tell u also he likes you..relationship needs communication and time...if hes busy in sports how can he give u that ..when he text u so much and came to ur house..that already shows he is interested in u...but doesnt mean interested to be girlfriend..maybe for him its enough that he is sure you like him too..anytime he is sure he wants to enter in a relationship..u r der..DONT RUSH.. gve urself some tym 2 analyze things..u like him..wud it mean u want to get him as ur boyfriend???wud it b ok for u 2 hve a busy bf??at least now u r nt cmmitted 2 each other....u cn keep each other as friends.....let it start der...wat imprtant is the feeling is mutual..
2007-11-03 17:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's more surprised about this latest disclosure,he may just need a little more time to take this all in, some guys are a little flattered by the such discoveries and require time, he's not brushing you off, the key word is time, so allow him that.
2007-11-03 16:40:35 · answer #4 · answered by anthony b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, calm down. You're okay. He's probably just busy. Just pray about it. He'll respond somehow.
2007-11-03 16:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Lady Dior♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know.....it seems like if he was excited about you liking him he would immediately respond in kind or ask you out or something... but I'm no expert on guys girl.
Good luck!
2007-11-03 16:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by Flair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in no way ever hear to rumors. He would look as though a nasty kisser to a minimum of one woman, yet to you he may be great. yet purely in case he's a nasty kisser, do no longer embarrass him - you should continuously instruct him the variety you desire him to kiss you. yet once you do no longer heavily like this boy, do no longer kiss him.
2016-11-10 05:05:41 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a little longer- he might text back, and while your waiting just stay calm and do something to take you mind off him- then when he texts you, hope for the best- he will text you back cause it seems like he may like you
2007-11-03 16:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um,the fact that he's thiniking about it is not a very good sign.next time u see him,u shuld just ignore him.pssshhh...
2007-11-04 07:45:49 · answer #9 · answered by peachio_16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-11-03 17:24:19 · answer #10 · answered by FlowerChild ✿ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋