After 7 years I no longer love my wife. Its just gone; there is nothing there-- She drives me to drink pretty much. I stay with her is because she earns a ton of money and i live very well (new car every year, nice house) --- other than that, i can't stand her. Is it okay to stay with her if i pretend to still love her??????
2007-11-03 15:19:35 · 21 answers · asked by godman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let's see. You posted all in one night that you:
1) you've only been married 7 MONTHS and had sex with your wife's sister -- but still love your wife
2) don't love your wife anymore after 7 YEARS of marriage
3) you're a gay man with a crush on a man at work
and
4) you're a straight man who might be gay and should you tell your parents
Hmmm. The TRUTH is that you are probably about 14 years old with braces, acne, and making all this stuff up from your Mommy's computer while she irons your socks for church in the morning.
2007-11-03 15:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sahana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be a high price to pay now wouldn't it. Think about it giving your soul up to someone you dont' love and you forever not loving her but yet going through the motions. And she too wouldnt' want some man just hanging on to her for her money.
Why don't you try finding out what it is that drives you crazy about her and things you can't stand have you thought of trying to sit down and discuss these things. Is she open to suggestions does she want her marriage to work. Or are you just there as a slave and putting up appearances.
Try to work out what ever it is you think is bothering you and then if you can't make it work. Then you have to say to yourself Okay i've done all what I can here . Its nobody's fault things just happen you grew apart or have different idea's now. and cut your losses hopefully end amicably and move on
You both deserve happiness life is short.
2007-11-03 22:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should sleep with her sister or become gay.
Dude, she's just using you too. She makes that money but she needs you to get to your friends, she's been sleeping with your buddies for years now.
yeah, I was just reading over your other questions and it seems your situation changes often. interesting eh? Like that number 7 don't you? 7 months, 7 years, etc... how many wives do you have?
2007-11-03 23:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by CoachT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stay with her just for the money, you are going to drive yourself nuts. You are a man.... do the right thing. YOu can earn your own money for goodness sakes. Let her be.
2007-11-03 22:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop pretending and be honest to yourself too. That is the problem when marrying someone just for money!!
2007-11-04 07:38:44 · answer #5 · answered by Arianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you have to choose what is most important to you. eventually you will grow old and do you wish to be with her then?? Money is not everything but if you like the money than sure stay and fake it I am sure women do it also.What does she do that makes you not love her??
2007-11-03 22:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by muffman_66 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! How is that fair to either of you? Both of you deserve love and happiness. Is she drives you crazy then your not happy....sounds like you need some counseling....and to be honest w/ your wife. She deserves someone who will love her in return.
2007-11-03 22:25:01 · answer #7 · answered by fellow cowlick owner 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sleep with her sister. Oh yea you did that. Stay miserable or get a life.
2007-11-03 22:24:55 · answer #8 · answered by joecool 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not OK Mr. freeloader. It is not fair to her, let her go so she can find someone who loves her and not her money.
2007-11-03 22:29:16 · answer #9 · answered by Molliemae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretending sucks!!!Quit your job if you have one. Stay unemployed for awhile and then divorce her and collect alimony!!
2007-11-03 22:51:13 · answer #10 · answered by distrait_are_you 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋