I slept with my Wife's Sister?

Question

Okay, i made a huge mistake-- I slept with my wifes sister!!!! I have not told my wife yet; what should i do???? We have been married 7 months and i love her, but this thing just came over me to have sex with her sister-- Help me--

Answer 1

LIAR. You just posted "I don't love my wife anymore" that said "After 7 years I no longer love my wife. Its just gone; there is nothing there-- She drives me to drink pretty much. I stay with her is because she earns a ton of money and i live very well (new car every year, nice house)" But in this post you lie by saying "i love her".

Then you posted a question about being a gay man with a crush on a man at work. I'm seriously doubting whether any of your posts are REAL. You're probably a nerd living in your mother's basement who gets his kicks by stirring up controversy on the Internet. Get a life.

Answer 2

Personally I think you are beyond help. Cheating is bad enough but with your wife's sister is in my opinion even worse. You will think so too if your wife finds out.

Now you have to decide whether to tell her or not. The problem is the sister, is she the vicious type that slept with you out of spite to her sister because she is jealous? Or was she the innocent type you seduced and now feels regret. Either way you might be in trouble. The vicious one might tell the sister just to make her angry or to break you up. The innocent type might feel such remorse now that she has to confess to her sister and beg forgiveness. Either way you are toast.

For now I would stay silent because there is always the chance little sister won't say anything. Stay away from your sister-in-law and away from family gatherings for a while because gullt usually shnows on faces.

Then beg God for forgiveness because if your wife or her family find out, you will think you died and did not go to heaven.

Good Luck

Answer 3

rolls eyes... serious bad thing here... get a counsellor and find out what the heck made you do this. You tell your wife and you ruin two relationships... your marriage and two sisters are done!
You will end up without wife and probably withjout sister.

If you the sis in law can stay away from each other... avoid each other for some time til you both cool off.. I don't think confessing is going to do any bit of good. If you must confess.. do it with a counsellor, a priest, or some spiritual advisor. but not the wife.

Now zip up your pants and be a real man.

Answer 4

What the f were you thinking? This will get back to her, so you had better start thinking of how you will tell her. Only seven months in? How much flirting was there during the time you two were dating? Probably enough to make Hugh Hefner blush, so it was only a matter of time.
And what kind of whore is she to do that to her sister?
You want help? You sure do need it. Tell her the simple evil truth and accept the consequences. It may be that you just weren't ready for the married life.

Answer 5

Another man who doesn't deserve to be married! Men like you make my blood boil! Something just came over you to have sex with her sister?!?! Get real. You can't love your wife and have sex with another woman. It doesn't work that way. And you have been married for only 7 months. This wasn't a huge mistake, how can you even put it that way? Your the mistake when your wife decided to marry you. Your wife loves you enough to want to spend the rest of her LIFE with you and you are already sticking your dick into another woman! 7 months of marriage! Thats all it took for you to already be messing around. You are a disgrace and I hope that your wife leaves you and takes you for everything. You deserve everything that you will be getting. Everything. She should cut your penis off to begin with and go from there.

Its interesting how you have been married for 7 years, your trying to come out of the closet to your parents and you have a crush on a male co worker....I think that you are full of **** and just have this desperate desire to post questions on here. Grow a brain and get a LIFE. Its all in your profile...your questions.

Answer 6

You are so right, you really F'd up. You have only one choice. Be a man and own up to your screw up. Believe me you do not want your wife to find out from her sister first. This may end your relationship, or it may not. But if you don't tell her, when it does finally come out you will have so much more to worry about.

Answer 7

Your spouse is in japan, and her sister is right here with you.... Your spouse is aware of her sister is with you? If sure, then she ought to be sensible sufficient that your husband is a person, and your sister is a girl, and while you 2 are by myself, you'll no longer be like gambling monopoly in combination at night time! The noticeable factor is temptation with eventual intercourse. I feel your spouse has despatched her sister to you for you 2 to revel in. It could be so dull to not revel in! But both assess together with your spouse realize first, to be at the riskless part, and no longer getting bashed for dishonest. You assess through gambling the trick of humour, jokes on her sister and also you... like for eg. her isiter is scorching/you noticed her bare popping out of the toilet/ and so forth. and spot her response.

Answer 8

First of all, this wasn't a mistake. You fully intended to sleep with another woman . Secondly, I highly doubt that you "love" your wife. Your best course of action is to fess up and be honest with your wife. But, I bet you don't do this. I bet you continue to repeatedly lie to your wife.

Answer 9

It's ok, she slept with your best friend AND your brother.

Honestly, a bunch of people are going to tell you how bad you are and how you should tell her all about it. You and sis need to have a talk and decide whether this is "come clean" or "forever secret". I suggest the latter.

Then you need to decide if you're going to continue the relation with sis - I'd suggest not.

People sometimes fool around - it happens. Not good, but it happens. Remember this when you find out she did the same thing...

Answer 10

it sounds like you helped yourself already. hey sex is sex, but you need to ask yourself do I really love my wife. You know there might come time when you might be tempted and you'll be in there again. as far as telling your wife, be prepared for what you know you deserve. if your lucky your wife will forgive if not get a good divorce attorney