I have great sex with my husband. No problems at all. I just want to do something new and different. I am the kind of person that wants to try diffrent things now and then. So I was wondering a diffrent position?,music?,candles? Just something diffrent that will get him aroused. You know something fun and exciting! Any ideas, advice?
2007-11-03 14:45:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hot wax, public sex, tying up, anal (have lubrication and go slow), "kiss anywhere but the mouth" (that's a fun game), plan a day trip and tease each other all day long (the fun in that is trying to be discreet but pushing it further and further), toys, let him shave you (electric razor), mmm, ok, I need a man now.
2007-11-03 14:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by fotophrk 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Greet him at the door in nothing (or next to nothing).
Pounce on him when he least expects it.
Take it out of the bedroom -- ever christened your couch? Kitchen counter? The stairs? The washing machine (don't knock it til you try it)?
Go park somewhere and have some crazy backseat sex.
Watch a porno together and try some of the positions they do (within reason...they can get a little unrealistic...)
Go to a "toy store" and buy something to play with together....bullets and vibrators are fun for the guy to use on the woman,etc.
Buy a sexy outfit -- naughty schoolgirl, whatever...something over-the-top and out of the ordinary. Surprise him with it.
Get some books on sexual positions...it sounds silly, but you'd be amazed at some of the things you can learn in them.
Get some massage oil. Follow the directions on the bottle. Give him the Happy Ending.
Try using an ice cube or an Altoid in your mouth when you go down on him. (Ice cubes work great on you too, but don't let him use anything with sugar like the Altoid)
Strip poker....Strip Scrabble....Strip Monopoly....you get the idea.
These are a few things that have worked well for me. Good luck, and have fun! :)
2007-11-03 22:38:43 · answer #2 · answered by War Games AM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-11-03 23:32:17 · answer #3 · answered by Living a healthier lifestyle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So many things...while driving, give him oral (hope you don't have kids with you) then have him pull over somewhere and have sex. Sex outside. Sex in different rooms, don't make it to the bedroom. While watching a movie, reach over and start playing with him, go down on him, and then get on top. Come home from work when hes at home and have a quicky. Games, sex toys, strip tease, porno, anal, role playing, new positions, tie him up, blind fold him, play naked hide and go seek, full body message with you in something sexy, drive around with him blind folded and tied up, and you do various things to him. Take him out to dinner, wear a low cut top that shows cleavage, wear a skirt, make yourself come in the restraunt in front of him. There are a million things that you can do, there are also web sites you can check out too.
2007-11-03 21:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would trying different toys, different characters, slow jams of course, hot candle wax, take hot showers, and rub each other with baby oil. OOoo ..trying the 69 of course...use some whip cream...sit on top and turn the other way. also try laying the opposite way...
2007-11-03 21:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by Bambi 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
WOW. I read all the answers before, just to see if any thing is missing!! They pretty well covered it all.(almost), Get a girlfriend, and the 2 of you give him a great nite of pleasure!! Take him him to a swingers club, and just have a ball!! You mite just open up a new&wonderful life!!! good luck
2007-11-03 22:08:11 · answer #6 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Different places if your husband the type of guy who wouldn't mine have sex outside the home. Like a park, if you or him have office, etc.
2007-11-03 21:56:17 · answer #7 · answered by leahcane 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can start by making love to his mind first...how? Call him and tell him that you can't get him out of your head and what you would like to do to him when he gets home......Lingerie...good food..finger food...feed him that can be a really sexy experience! Massages with massage oils are great too...work uncharted territory!
2007-11-03 22:32:21 · answer #8 · answered by only1sol2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Experiment, alot.
Wear sexy lingerie, talk dirty, be spontaneous, have sex in a public place, watch porn together, go to a female strip club together (learn how the pros arouse a guy).
2007-11-03 21:54:54 · answer #9 · answered by Onery 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
do stuff naked.....take a hhoottt shower together and i think you know what to do in there also let him bang u or succkkk itt also watch porn and then practice those things together
and amandas right i bet your little and wondering about disguisting things.
2007-11-03 21:49:09 · answer #10 · answered by glamour 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋