I have this friend who says that she's going to stop by just to say hi and then stays for 4 hours. So by the second hour, I'm just like "Wow, I have a lot of homework to do." and then pick up my homework and start working on it. But she goes on talking about random stuff. I mean, i don't want to tell her to leave or anything but I'm piled with stuff to do for school. How do I tell her to leave without hurting her feelings?
2007-11-03 14:03:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sorry, you may need to hurt her feelings A little :~)
Just explain to her that you have tons of homework and don't mean to be rude but, 'Please Leave' so you can do your homework.
Hope it works out for you :~)
2007-11-03 14:12:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why doesn't she have the same homework load that you do? When does she do it? It almost sounds like she doesn't want to go home and she is at your place because it is a safe haven. Is there trouble at her house that she maybe is embarrassed to tell you about? I'm sure it is annoying when you have things to do, but as a friend, be a bit compassionate until you find out if there is something happening that maybe she needs a bit of help with.
2007-11-03 14:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by kip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all in the future if she asks to come over and you know you have a lot to do that night then just make up some excuse why she cant come over so you dont have to put yourself i this situation again. and second of all i think the best way to have her leave without being rude is just say you jsut remembered you have a huge essay due tomorrow you need to do it and before she can start to talk just say so ill call you tomororw and start to walk towards the door and open it for her. so she wont have time to keep talking she just leave.
2007-11-03 14:29:32 · answer #3 · answered by bebe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 22:41:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her you are busy and will talk to her later. If you dont get your work done you'll be in trouble with your parents. She should get the hint
2007-11-03 14:07:11 · answer #5 · answered by natasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"oh ( name of person), im kinda busy right now and need to work on my hw. can you stop by some other time?" maybe??
2007-11-03 14:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by i luv pugs so much!!! what now?? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST TELL HER, LOOK, i'VE ONLY GOT ABOUT 15 MINUTES, AND YOU GOTTA GO, AND WALK HER TO THE DOOR!!!
2007-11-03 14:13:45 · answer #7 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋