2007-11-03 12:25:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
Extremely important so you can get on with your life. As humans, we are all flawed, and if it is something forgivable then do it.
I believe there would not be any relationships of any kind without forgiveness. Make sure you tell the person you forgive them too. If that person(s) has done something you can't forget and it's so damaging that a relationship is impossible for you to sustain, then tell the person and move on. You can still forgive the person even if you can't or shouldn't be around them.
If you have no forgiveness.....you have no compassion. If you have neither, you are an empty and lonely person and unable to "grow" in life.
This is not to say that a person can keep doing the same things over and over again and be taken back. Only an individual can determine what they can handle and what they can't.
Forgive each other as God as forgiven you. +
2007-11-03 12:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it is very important ,because if you dont forgive then things just fester and can cause lots of physical and mental distress. That doesnt mean you have to put up with any sort of abusive relationship it just means that you should forgive that person and move on with your life. your mental health depends on it.
2007-11-03 13:04:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People sometimes behave in a very hurtful way. They may not realise they are doing it. But there are some pretty mean people out there.
Yes, we can forgive, but we must never allow others to push us around. We must calmly explain what we don't like about their actions. Be honest but ultimately forgiving.
2007-11-03 12:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by Andrew L 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very
Not forgiving someone means that you are kind of clinging on to the past. You should continue and move forward. Although it does depend on what it is that needs forgiving. If its geting robbed by your sibling then you should forgive however if its your sibling killing someone then you shouldnt (depending on if it was murder or not)
2007-11-03 12:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by The Wonderful Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"forgiveness is a gift you give yourself",,,,a wise person told me that once,,,and it is so true,,,it doesn't mean you have to forget but let it go and forgive,,,,,if your a christian that's what God tells us right? (to forgive) and even if your not it still the same,,,i personally believe holding in grudge's and anger is just starting a cancer of it's own,,,were all going to hurt people and people will always hurt us, that's life,,,,I'm also not a big fan of revenge i believe in "karma" what goes around comes around and believe me revenge when it comes on it's own is so much sweeter lol,,,good night skycat
2007-11-03 12:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by Elizabeth (the jewish princess) 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm! Ooookay....
How unimportant is none-forgiveness in a relationship?
It's invariably useful to turn a question around for another perspective.
Sash.
2007-11-03 12:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the key to being able to be happy in your life. Those who cant forgive are weighed down by their anger and unhappiness. I don't say that you need to forget what someone did, or justify why they did it or even understand their reasoning, you just need to forgive them for wronging you and be able to move on.
2007-11-03 12:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by Diane M 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you don't have forgiveness then you don't have a relationship.
2007-11-03 13:06:24 · answer #8 · answered by clivedexter 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness is important. but depends on what they want you to forgve!
For example, if my parter committed adultery, i would not forgive!
2007-11-03 12:29:23 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is absolutely critical!
You should forgive, but it is not recommended to forget.
2007-11-03 13:36:23 · answer #10 · answered by Jim! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋