I like this girl but she is bisexual and also she has a boyfriend. She says she really likes me and that i'm the only girl she has ever really liked. I like her but I don't want to take it further so I can prevent from being hurt. She wants to have a boyfriend and girlfriend because she says as being with a girl is nothing. But her boyfriend doesn't want her to have a girlfriend while she is with him. I'm confused on the whole thing. What should I do ..?
2007-11-03 11:14:55 · 8 answers · asked by HOLDUP! 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Also this girl has never been with a girl and what she means by "nothing" is that she thinks sex in a girl on girl relationship is nothing.
2007-11-03 11:16:16 · update #1
You needs to leave her alone. Because it is very unhealth being in a relationship with a Bi-sexual. Who is to say her boyfriend is being faithful to her. And who is to say he is wearing protection during intimacy. Find yourself a pure lesbian, and leave that alone. Because she is all about lick it, and now stick it. Will you be able challenge that.
2007-11-03 12:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by swishersweets97 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I totally agree with Marlene. She sounds like one of those bi-sexuals that actually fulfills the stereotype of wanting to date mulitiple people at once & liking to toy around with people's emotions. But let me tell you, MOST bi people are not like that. I, for example, am bi yet when I am with someone, I am WITH that person. It is that clear and simple for me.
So, don't let this girl make you think all bi-sexuals are cheating greedy people, buttttttt, sounds like you should definitely find a way to get over her or else you'll likely get hurt.
2007-11-03 17:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by MP 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She's a moron. Move on. If she thinks it's okay to treat you that way and say those things--and think those things with her boyfriend, then she's blind.
She gives bisexuals the bad stereotype.
2007-11-03 11:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by [192882] 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I think she's curious and after you have sex with her, she'll go back with her boyfriend. Find someone else is my advice.
2007-11-03 11:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Marlene just took the words right out of my mouth. Sad to say but she's right... Do take care anyway...;)
2007-11-03 11:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by J. McCoy 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you should tell her that since she is going out with someone it's best that you don't go out.
Also if she thinks it nothing to be with you then it's not worth it.
2007-11-03 11:21:43 · answer #6 · answered by me 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she isn't going to break up with her boyfriend then there's really nothing you can do about it.
2007-11-03 11:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by Hollister Babe 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I would wait and see how things play out.
2007-11-03 11:17:49 · answer #8 · answered by Edith V 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋